{"id":13077,"date":"2021-10-11T16:23:34","date_gmt":"2021-10-11T12:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ictimai.az\/?p=13077"},"modified":"2021-10-16T10:50:25","modified_gmt":"2021-10-16T06:50:25","slug":"cennete-mektub-nurlan-sakiroglu-yazir-foto-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ictimai.az\/?p=13077","title":{"rendered":"\u201cC\u0259nn\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ktub\u201d Nurlan \u015eakiro\u011flu yaz\u0131r\u2026 \u2013 FOTO + V\u0130DEO"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u0259\u015f\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lir, ayaq tutub yeriyir, dil a\u00e7\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259ki m\u00f6vqeyini\u00a0 bildiyi andan var olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 Ulu tanr\u0131ya, daha sonra is\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 borclu oldu\u011funu d\u0259rk edir. B\u0259s valideynl\u0259r aras\u0131nda insanlar f\u0259rq qoyurlarm\u0131? Ana ya ata daha \u00e7ox sevilir? \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n \u015f\u00fcurlu k\u00fctl\u0259 aras\u0131nda sor\u011fu aparsaq y\u0259qin ki, birm\u0259nal\u0131 olaraq bu statistikada analar\u0131n \u00f6n plana ke\u00e7m\u0259sinin \u015fahidi olar\u0131q. Bug\u00fcn\u0259d\u0259k analar haqq\u0131nda kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r mahn\u0131lar, \u015feirl\u0259r, bayat\u0131lar yaz\u0131l\u0131b, h\u0259tta dinimizd\u0259 \u2013 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s kitab\u0131m\u0131z olan \u201cQurani-K\u0259rim\u201dd\u0259 d\u0259 analara b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259r verilib, Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimizin \u201cC\u0259nn\u0259t analar\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndad\u0131r\u201d k\u0259lam\u0131, analar\u0131n bizim\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259rli v\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s varl\u0131qlar oldu\u011funu bir daha t\u0259c\u0259ss\u00fcm etdirir.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0259xs\u0259n m\u0259nim d\u0259 analara h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u00f6rm\u0259tim v\u0259 ehtiram\u0131m var, lakin bug\u00fcn m\u0259n bizim var olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131za borclu oldu\u011fumuz dig\u0259r bir varl\u0131q atalar v\u0259 ya \u0259sl atalar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsind\u0259 \u00f6z do\u011fma atam, m\u0259nim diliml\u0259 des\u0259k PAPAM haqq\u0131nda atalar\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn kim oldu\u011funu xarakteriz\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259m.<\/p>\n

B\u0259li, analar evin h\u0259rar\u0259ti, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n qoruyucu m\u0259l\u0259yidir, b\u0259s atalar? Atalar da evin dir\u0259yi, f\u0259xr, q\u00fcrur m\u0259nb\u0259yidir. D\u00fczd\u00fcr bir \u00e7ox hallarda atalar analar q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na sevgil\u0259rini b\u0259x\u015f ed\u0259 bilm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z, xo\u015fb\u0259xt b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 onlara g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k t\u0259min etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r d\u0259rid\u0259n-qab\u0131qdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, \u00f6zl\u0259rini oda-k\u00f6z\u0259 vururlar.<\/p>\n

Y\u0259qin ki, bir \u00e7oxunuz m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etmisiniz \u00f6vladlar ta u\u015faql\u0131qdan \u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda atalar\u0131n\u0131n dig\u0259r atalardan daha g\u00fccl\u00fc oldu\u011funu san\u0131r, onlar\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rinin ideal\u0131 se\u00e7ir, \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda atalar\u0131na b\u0259nz\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yir, h\u0259tta b\u0259zi q\u0131z \u00f6vladlar\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n da atalar\u0131na b\u0259nz\u0259m\u0259sini ist\u0259yirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

M\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0259rk etdiyim andan atam\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, alic\u0259nab insan, u\u015faqla u\u015faq, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck kimi r\u0259ftar etm\u0259sinin, c\u0259miyy\u0259t aras\u0131nda kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fck n\u00fcfuza sahib olmas\u0131n\u0131n, h\u0259tta cavan ya\u015flar\u0131nda n\u0259slinin a\u011fsaqqal\u0131 olmas\u0131 kimi ali keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin \u015fahidi olmu\u015fam. Xarakterin\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 is\u0259 o, t\u0259mkinli, s\u0259brli, kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r z\u0259hmli olma\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 bir o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 zarafatc\u0131l v\u0259 g\u00fcl\u0259r\u00fcz insan idi. B\u0259s m\u0259n\u0259 bir u\u015faq kimi diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259ribmi? G\u0259lin ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn n\u0259 oldu\u011funu x\u0131rdalayaq. Bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 u\u015faqlara diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u0259sas\u0259n onlar\u0131 h\u0259r d\u0259qiq\u0259 quca\u011f\u0131na al\u0131b \u00f6pm\u0259k, xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259k kimi davran\u0131\u015flarla xarakteriz\u0259 edirl\u0259r. B\u0259ri ba\u015fdan qeyd edim ki, bu kimi hallar m\u0259nd\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt olmay\u0131b. N\u0259 papam t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n quca\u011fa al\u0131n\u0131b \u00f6p\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m, n\u0259 d\u0259 ki, xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259r e\u015fitmi\u015f\u0259m, el\u0259 bilm\u0259yin ki bunun \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 ondan pis s\u00f6zl\u0259r e\u015fitmi\u015f v\u0259 t\u0259hqir olunmu\u015fam \u0259sla. Sual olunur: b\u0259s onda o c\u00fcr atan\u0131 sevm\u0259k olarm\u0131? Kiml\u0259r ki, ata qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bu c\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flarla qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirirl\u0259rs\u0259 m\u0259n o k\u0259sl\u0259ri q\u0131nay\u0131ram. M\u0259nim fikrimc\u0259 ata qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131na s\u0259ni sevir\u0259m dem\u0259d\u0259n sevgisini, ba\u011fr\u0131na basmadan o h\u0259rar\u0259ti hiss etdirm\u0259k, s\u0259ni d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xti g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m k\u0259lm\u0259sini e\u015fitm\u0259d\u0259n i\u00e7ind\u0259 duydurmaq v\u0259 onu d\u0259rk etdirm\u0259kdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki zaman\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 \u0259sl insan bunlar\u0131n n\u0259 dem\u0259k oldu\u011funu bilir.<\/p>\n

Tam s\u0259mimi olacam d\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc des\u0259m m\u0259n d\u0259 18 ya\u015f\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r bir \u00e7oxunuz kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm. M\u0259ni \u0259traf\u0131mda g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm atalar q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 quca\u011f\u0131na almayanda, \u00f6pm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, bir k\u0259lm\u0259si il\u0259 futboldan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131b elm\u0259 istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirdiyind\u0259, bir bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 \u201cm\u0259n s\u0259ni ali savadl\u0131, elin\u0259-obas\u0131na, v\u0259t\u0259nin\u0259 layiqli bir insan kimi g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m\u201d ist\u0259yini hiss etdir\u0259nd\u0259, z\u0259hmini hiss edib \u0259traf\u0131mdak\u0131 u\u015faqlardan f\u0259rqli olaraq siqar\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k ist\u0259yind\u0259n \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fck \u0259l \u00e7\u0259kdiyimd\u0259, ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131mla \u00e7ay\u00e7\u0131ya ged\u0259 bilm\u0259yib \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 evd\u0259 oturub d\u0259rs oxuyanda, indid\u0259n z\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 qatla\u015f dey\u0259r\u0259k k\u0259ndimizd\u0259ki m\u0259hl\u0259mizd\u0259 parnikd\u0259 pomidor, xiyar bec\u0259r\u0259nd\u0259 \u201cniy\u0259 s\u0259n ax\u0131 bu c\u00fcr insansan\u201d, \u201cba\u015fqalar\u0131 kimi h\u0259yat s\u00fcrm\u0259yim\u0259 mane\u0259 olursan\u201d dey\u0259 h\u0259r zaman i\u00e7imd\u0259 gileyl\u0259n\u0259rdim.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s m\u0259n onun aliliyini n\u0259 vaxt d\u0259rk etdim?<\/p>\n

N\u0259hay\u0259t 11-ci sinfi \u0259la qiym\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 bitirib ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 test imtahan\u0131 verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn valideynl\u0259riml\u0259 birlikd\u0259 k\u0259ndd\u0259n Bak\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rin\u0259 \u00fcz tutduq. Sanki imtana gir\u0259n m\u0259n deyil papam idi. O d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 o insan h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 idi. \u0130lk d\u0259f\u0259 idi ki, m\u0259n onu bu c\u00fcr h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fcm. \u0130mtahandan sonra mamam k\u0259nd\u0259 qay\u0131tsa da biz papamla birg\u0259 cavablar \u00e7\u0131xana q\u0259d\u0259r Bak\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rind\u0259 qald\u0131q. H\u0259r g\u00fcn s\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n bulvara ged\u0259r ax\u015famlar\u0131 ev\u0259 qay\u0131dard\u0131q. Bax \u0259sl h\u0259yat d\u0259rsini, papam\u0131n \u0259sl aliliyini m\u0259n h\u0259min g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 tam anlam\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fcm v\u0259 d\u0259rk etdim. Onu bug\u00fcn\u0259d\u0259k q\u0131nama\u011f\u0131ma pe\u015fman oldum. Sanki yenid\u0259n do\u011fulmu\u015fdum, lakin u\u015faq kimi deyil, 100 il \u00f6m\u00fcr ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ah\u0131l bir qoca kimi. Universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul oldum v\u0259 dostumla birg\u0259 kiray\u0259 ev tutub ya\u015fama\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131q. Art\u0131q papam rahat idi \u00e7\u00fcnki o\u011flu ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daxil olmu\u015fdu v\u0259 rahat bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 Moskva \u015f\u0259h\u0259rin\u0259 yola d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259kdi. 2003-c\u00fc ilin 8 sentyabr tarixi is\u0259 papamla son g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm oldu. Yen\u0259 d\u0259 bulvarda, Venesiya kafesind\u0259. Sanki \u00f6l\u0259c\u0259yini bilirmi\u015f kimi ail\u0259ni m\u0259n\u0259 tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131. D\u0259rsl\u0259rimd\u0259 u\u011furlar dil\u0259di v\u0259 biz sa\u011folla\u015fd\u0131q. \u0130nan\u0131n Moskvaya getdiyi g\u00fcnd\u0259n h\u0259r an m\u0259niml\u0259 telefon \u0259laq\u0259si yarad\u0131r v\u0259 d\u0259rsl\u0259riml\u0259 maraqlan\u0131rd\u0131. N\u0259hay\u0259t 1-ci semestri \u0259la qiym\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u015fa vurub do\u011fma k\u0259ndim\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131m. Papam \u00e7ox sevincli idi. 2004-c\u00fc ilin fevral\u0131n 1-d\u0259n 2-n\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259n g\u00fcn\u00fc is\u0259 m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131ma qara h\u0259rfl\u0259rl\u0259 yaz\u0131ld\u0131. Bir \u015feyi qeyd edim ki, m\u0259n q\u0259lb\u0259n sevdiyim insanlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k pis hadis\u0259l\u0259ri, onlar\u0131n narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259rhal hiss edir v\u0259 duyuram. H\u0259min g\u00fcn d\u0259 el\u0259 oldu. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin he\u00e7 vaxt \u015fikay\u0259t etm\u0259diyim ba\u015f v\u0259 di\u015f a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 m\u0259ni gec\u0259ni s\u0259h\u0259r\u0259d\u0259k yatma\u011fa imkan verm\u0259di. S\u0259n dem\u0259 h\u0259min saatlarda papam h\u0259yatla vidala\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. S\u0259h\u0259r a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 mamam\u0131n atas\u0131, r\u0259hm\u0259tlik \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr babam papam\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm x\u0259b\u0259rini m\u0259n\u0259 verir. H\u0259min an onunla birg\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, ruh\u0259n m\u0259n d\u0259 bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131 t\u0259rk edir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

Onun \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnd\u0259n sonra uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t insanlardan, musiqid\u0259n uzaq g\u0259zdim, \u00f6z qap\u0131m\u0131zda xeyir i\u015f olmay\u0131nca qol qald\u0131rmayaca\u011f\u0131ma s\u00f6z verdim v\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0259 tutdum. Bel\u0259 bir deyim var \u201czaman h\u0259r \u015feyin d\u0259rman\u0131d\u0131r\u201d amma inan\u0131n bu deyim m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tam yadd\u0131r. \u018fksin\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn onun \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc m\u0259n\u0259 daha \u00e7ox t\u0259sir edir, onun yoxlu\u011funu \u0259vv\u0259lkind\u0259n d\u0259 \u00e7ox hiss edir, ona daha \u00e7ox ehtiyac duyuram.<\/p>\n

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Qan\u0131m bahas\u0131na alard\u0131m, PAPA.<\/p>\n

Olsayd\u0131 \u00f6m\u00fcrd\u0259n \u00f6m\u00fcr\u0259 h\u0259diyy\u0259,<\/p>\n

\u00d6mr\u00fcmd\u0259n \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u0259 ver\u0259rdim PAPA!<\/p>\n

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Bir \u015feyi x\u00fcsusi olaraq vur\u011fulay\u0131m ki, bug\u00fcn papam cism\u0259n yan\u0131mda olmasa da, ruh\u0259n onu h\u0259r zaman yan\u0131mda hiss etmi\u015f\u0259m v\u0259 qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u0259n x\u0131rda u\u011furdan, \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u011furad\u0259k onun \u0259m\u0259yi dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r \u00fcn\u00fcm yetirs\u0259 c\u0259nn\u0259td\u0259ki papama bel\u0259 bir m\u0259ktub \u00fcnvanlamaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m:<\/p>\n

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Candan \u0259ziz papam, bu g\u00fcn 17 ild\u0259n art\u0131qd\u0131r ki, s\u0259ni itirmi\u015f\u0259m. 17 ild\u0259n art\u0131qd\u0131r ki, s\u0259nin qay\u011f\u0131l\u0131, mehriban s\u0259sini e\u015fitmir\u0259m. Bu s\u0259tirl\u0259ri yazark\u0259n s\u0259nin\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox dar\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131, \u00fcr\u0259yimin nec\u0259 g\u00f6yn\u0259diyini hiss edib k\u00f6vr\u0259lir\u0259m. Bug\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcn qalan hiss\u0259sini s\u0259n\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r oldu\u011fumu a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131na b\u0259yan edir\u0259m. Bilmir\u0259m s\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcn, g\u00f6zl\u0259diyin kimi bir \u00f6vlad ola bildim ya yox bunu s\u0259n daha yax\u015f\u0131 bilirs\u0259n. Amma h\u0259r add\u0131m\u0131mda s\u0259nin ad\u0131na layiq, s\u0259nin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 uca tutma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fam. S\u0259n\u0259 qovu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcn\u00fc is\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u0259brsizlikl\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259yir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

Oxuculara t\u00f6vsiy\u0259m atalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 pafoslu \u201cs\u0259ni sevir\u0259m\u201d k\u0259lm\u0259sini e\u015fitm\u0259diyiniz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 q\u0131namay\u0131n, \u0259ksin\u0259 onunla dost olma\u011fa, onun i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259\u015ff etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. H\u0259yat siz g\u00f6zl\u0259diyiniz q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 uzun deyil, atan\u0131z\u0131n, anan\u0131z\u0131n, sevdikl\u0259rinizin q\u0259drini bilin, \u00e7\u00fcnki zamans\u0131z v\u0259 q\u0259fil ayr\u0131lacaqs\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n

Sonda siz oxucular\u0131 \u201cAtas\u0131z d\u00fcnya\u201d \u015feiri v\u0259\u00a0 papama h\u0259sr etdiyim \u015feir videoyaz\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u015f-ba\u015fa burax\u0131ram!<\/p>\n

Atas\u0131 olanlar q\u0259drini bilin,
\nYaman a\u011f\u0131r imi\u015f ATASIZ D\u00dcNYA.
\nOna s\u0259cd\u0259 q\u0131l\u0131n, ona ba\u015f \u0259yin,
\nYaman a\u011f\u0131r imi\u015f ATASIZ D\u00dcNYA.<\/p>\n

Qap\u0131ya bax\u0131ram, qap\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7m\u0131r,
\n\u015e\u0259klin\u0259 bax\u0131ram, dinmir-dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131r,
\nK\u00f6nl\u00fcm yas saxlay\u0131r, k\u00f6nl\u00fcm bar\u0131\u015fm\u0131r,
\nYaman a\u011f\u0131r imi\u015f ATASIZ D\u00dcNYA.<\/p>\n

H\u0259y\u0259td\u0259n, bax\u00e7adan gur s\u0259si getdi,
\nH\u0259r bir h\u0259rar\u0259ti n\u0259f\u0259si getdi,
\nO k\u00f6\u00e7d\u00fc buda\u011f\u0131n k\u00f6lg\u0259si getdi,
\nYaman a\u011f\u0131r imi\u015f ATASIZ D\u00dcNYA.<\/p>\n

G\u0259l\u0259n-ged\u0259n bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 azald\u0131,
\nBa\u015f\u0131m\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn duman, \u00e7\u0259n ald\u0131,
\nB\u00fct\u00fcn arzular\u0131m yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qald\u0131,
\nYaman a\u011f\u0131r imi\u015f ATASIZ D\u00dcNYA.<\/p>\n

Video Oynad\u0131c\u0131<\/span><\/p>\n

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