{"id":13384,"date":"2021-11-06T11:17:54","date_gmt":"2021-11-06T07:17:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ictimai.az\/?p=13384"},"modified":"2021-11-14T18:37:31","modified_gmt":"2021-11-14T14:37:31","slug":"erken-nikah-sonu-dehset-sacan-faciedir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ictimai.az\/?p=13384","title":{"rendered":"Erk\u0259n nikah – Sonu d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t sa\u00e7an faci\u0259dir"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Loqos” Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri, “Psixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi” \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri Psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva il\u0259\u00a0 s\u00f6hb\u0259timiz \u00a0erk\u0259n nikah \u00a0\u00a0v\u0259 onun\u00a0 f\u0259sadlar\u0131\u00a0 bar\u0259d\u0259\u00a0 oldu.<\/p>\n

T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva Olaylar.az-a\u00a0bildirib ki, m\u00f6vzu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn aktual olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131 q\u0259zet s\u0259hif\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259, h\u0259tta qal\u0131n-qal\u0131n kitablara s\u0131\u011fmayacaq q\u0259d\u0259r geni\u015f v\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259lidir:<\/p>\n

“Fikrimi konkret suallar \u0259traf\u0131nda c\u0259ml\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Erk\u0259n nikah – ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259rk etm\u0259mi\u015f, psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n ail\u0259 quracaq q\u0259d\u0259r formala\u015fmam\u0131\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011flanan nikahd\u0131r. Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u011flanan erk\u0259n nikahdan t\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, bir s\u0131ra \u0259d\u0259biyyatlarda “Yeniyetm\u0259 nikah\u0131” olaraq da b\u0259hs edilir. Bu tip nikahlar \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z regionda valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259kidi il\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, burada t\u0259kc\u0259 valideynin deyil, eyni zamanda qohumlar\u0131n, dostlar\u0131n, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 sosial \u00e7evr\u0259nin d\u0259 rolu b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Erk\u0259n nikah faci\u0259dir, erk\u0259n nikah ac\u0131 sonluqdur. H\u0259l\u0259 bu nikahlardan d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n u\u015faqlar hans\u0131 travmalar\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r, bu da m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ciddi sual do\u011furan ba\u015fqa bir t\u0259r\u0259fidir. Y\u0259ni, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u0259m maddi, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131q olmadan u\u011furlu nikahdan dan\u0131\u015fmaq do\u011fru olmaz.”<\/p>\n

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T\u0259ran\u0259\u00a0 Pa\u015fayevan\u0131n\u00a0 s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259\u00a0 g\u00f6r\u0259\u00a0 erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yol a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 psixoloji aspektd\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259rk\u0259n, bir \u00e7ox hallar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r:\u00a0” Bu hallardan \u0259n \u00e7ox t\u0259sad\u00fcf edil\u0259nl\u0259r Obsessiv-Kompulsiv pozuntu \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259ri, depressiya, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f pozuntular\u0131 v\u0259 buna paralel ba\u015f ver\u0259n panik ataklard\u0131r. Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259b oldu\u011fu Obsessiv-Kompulsiv pozuntunun meydana \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131na z\u0259min yaradan \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259b t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin cinsi akta h\u0259l\u0259 haz\u0131r olmamas\u0131 v\u0259 ya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu akt\u0131n ba\u015f verm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haz\u0131r hiss etm\u0259m\u0259sidir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 e\u015fitdiyi v\u0259 inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u0131ra cinsi mifl\u0259r d\u0259 bu pozuntunun yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Onu da qeyd etm\u0259k olar ki, OKP iyr\u0259nm\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259zah\u00fcr edir. S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n hallar ad\u0259t\u0259n qad\u0131nlarda daha s\u0131x m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. B\u0259z\u0259n erk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-birl\u0259rini tan\u0131ma\u011fa kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r vaxt\u0131 olmur. Ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rini kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r tan\u0131ma\u011fa \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131rlar. Bu da \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t azl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ail\u0259daxili rollar\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u0259nims\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259si, yeni m\u00fchit\u0259 adaptasiya ola bilm\u0259m\u0259k, konfliktli situasiyalar\u0131n yaranmas\u0131, \u015fidd\u0259t, dolay\u0131 v\u0259 ya birba\u015fa y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f verbal aqressiya v\u0259 s. kimi neqativ hallara yol a\u00e7\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibar\u0131 il\u0259\u00a0t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri, b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 h\u0259r ikisind\u0259 depressiv \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259r t\u0259zah\u00fcr edir.
\nErk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259rin vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmamas\u0131 v\u0259 aqressiyan\u0131n daxild\u0259 toplanmas\u0131, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin toplanmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t b\u0259hsi ged\u0259n neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u00fcur alt\u0131nda toplan\u0131r v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 panik ataklar formas\u0131nda\u00a0\u00a0\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir.”<\/p>\n

T\u0259ran\u0259\u00a0 Pa\u015fayeva\u00a0 bu\u00a0 q\u0259na\u0259td\u0259dir\u00a0 ki, b\u0259zi hallarda azya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131zlar k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa can at\u0131rlar : ” Y\u0259ni, bunu k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck kimi ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r do\u011fru olmazd\u0131. X\u00fcsus\u0259n b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 avtoritar ail\u0259l\u0259rin q\u0131zlar\u0131 ata-ana, b\u00f6y\u00fck qarda\u015f basq\u0131s\u0131 alt\u0131nda ya\u015famaqdan bezir. Yorucu v\u0259 cans\u0131x\u0131c\u0131 h\u0259yatdan can qurtarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259tic\u0259nin n\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n “s\u0259ni sevir\u0259m” dey\u0259n biri il\u0259 izdivaca girir. Burada art\u0131q “ya\u011f\u0131\u015fdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b ya\u011fmura d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k” faci\u0259si ba\u015flan\u0131r. O\u011flan\u0131n ail\u0259si q\u0131z\u0131 evl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259bul etmir, q\u0131z\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri onlar\u0131 ayaqlay\u0131b ke\u00e7\u0259n q\u0131zlar\u0131ndan \u00fcz d\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259r.\u00a0He\u00e7 bir i\u015fi-g\u00fcc\u00fc olmayan, h\u0259l\u0259 maddi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n \u00a0valideynind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olan, t\u00fcfeyli h\u0259yat s\u00fcr\u0259n “\u0259r” v\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyi v\u0259ziyy\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qalan “qad\u0131n”. Sonuc d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t sa\u00e7\u0131r. \u018fli h\u0259r yerd\u0259n \u00fcz\u00fcl\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n bir yolu qal\u0131r, h\u0259yat\u0131na q\u0259sd etm\u0259k. Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 faic\u0259l\u0259r bar\u0259d\u0259 says\u0131z misallar \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n

Amma\u00a0 \u00a0bu \u00e7ox h\u0259ssas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn konkret k\u0259miyy\u0259t v\u0259 ya nisb\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. \u018fvv\u0259ld\u0259 d\u0259 bildirdiyim kimi bu g\u00fcn t\u0259kc\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r \u00f6z ist\u0259yi il\u0259 yox, h\u0259m\u00e7inin valideynl\u0259rinin, yax\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259kidi il\u0259 d\u0259 erk\u0259n nigaha c\u0259lb olunurlar. Paytaxt v\u0259 daha b\u00f6y\u00fck \u015f\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 b\u0259zi rayon v\u0259 k\u0259ndl\u0259rimizd\u0259 bu hallarla daha \u00e7ox qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. Qohum, qon\u015fu v\u0259 ya atan\u0131n yax\u0131n dostunun \u00f6vlad\u0131 deyib \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n fikrini almadan q\u0259rarlar verilir, q\u0131sa zamanda ni\u015fan, toy m\u0259rasiml\u0259ri ke\u00e7irilir, amma \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bkarlar\u0131n bir-birl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcb tan\u0131mas\u0131na n\u0259 zaman verilmir, n\u0259 d\u0259 \u015f\u0259rait yarad\u0131lm\u0131r. Bu da n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 sonda f\u0259sadlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n

Yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n h\u0259tta \u00f6z atalar\u0131 ya\u015fda olan ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131 yax\u0131n \u00e7evr\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n birm\u0259nal\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanmasa da bel\u0259 evlilikl\u0259r\u0259 can atanlar var. Azya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z t\u0259bii olaraq ata-anan\u0131n basq\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 bu h\u0259yat\u0131 q\u0259bul edir. B\u0259s, 25 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z niy\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n 20-25 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck insanla ail\u0259 qurur? D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, h\u0259r iki halda maddiyyat \u00f6nd\u0259 g\u0259lir. Birinci halda valideyn \u00f6z q\u0131z\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn rahat hesab etdiyi h\u0259yat\u0131 se\u00e7ir. Bu rahatl\u0131q is\u0259 t\u0259bii ki, maddi t\u0259minatla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Burada bir ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u0259qam var. \u00d6vlad\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda q\u0131zla evl\u0259n\u0259n ki\u015finin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si v\u0259 k\u00fcr\u0259yini “ya\u011fl\u0131 qap\u0131”ya s\u00f6yk\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k q\u0131z anas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si. Maddi \u00e7\u0259tinlik ya\u015fayan valideyn el aras\u0131nda “q\u0131z y\u00fck\u00fc, duz y\u00fck\u00fc” deyil\u0259n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131qdan xilas olur.\u00a0 H\u0259m d\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131 yem\u0259k-i\u00e7m\u0259k qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Valideyn bir n\u00f6v \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 olan borcunu yerin\u0259 yetirmi\u015f hesab edir, bundan sonra m\u0259suliyy\u0259t daha \u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259dir. Varl\u0131 ki\u015fini “g\u0259lincik”l\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 vadar ed\u0259n n\u0259dir? Burada onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haql\u0131 bildikl\u0259ri bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Lakin g\u0259nc q\u0131z n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, onun h\u0259yat\u0131 nec\u0259 olacaq, atas\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan bir adamla nec\u0259 bir yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f qoyacaq, bunu fikirl\u0259\u015f\u0259n yoxdur.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fda q\u0131zdan bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck olan ki\u015finin psixoloji durumunun n\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olmas\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 konkret he\u00e7 n\u0259 dem\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Do\u011frudur, d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ki\u00e7ik olan q\u0131zlarla evl\u0259n\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r bar\u0259d\u0259 sonu xo\u015f olmayan hallar g\u00f6r\u00fcb e\u015fitmi\u015fik, lakin bu o dem\u0259k deyildir ki, ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n sonlu\u011fu eyni n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. Yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck biri il\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurmas\u0131nda s\u0259b\u0259b v\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259ri bildirdim. Eyni zamanda qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin d\u0259 bel\u0259 nikaha daxil olmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri ola bilir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r bir-birind\u0259n f\u0259rqlidir. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox e\u015fitdiyimiz hallar bunlard\u0131r ki, bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r bir qayda olaraq ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrl\u0259r, onlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131r v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131zlarla evl\u0259nirl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, he\u00e7 d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn nigahlarda ail\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt\u00e7iliyi uzun s\u00fcrm\u00fcr, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar, anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar yaran\u0131r,<\/p>\n

N\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcn he\u00e7 biri ist\u0259diyi m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 tapm\u0131r. Valideyn d\u0259, \u00f6vlad da, “ya\u015fl\u0131 a\u015fiq” d\u0259 h\u0259r biri ayr\u0131-ayr\u0131l\u0131qda f\u0259rqli psixoloji travmalar al\u0131r. \u018fn \u00e7ox z\u0259r\u0259r \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n is\u0259 t\u0259bii ki, yeniyetm\u0259 olur.<\/p>\n

Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 aidiyat\u0131 qurumlar, h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131, t\u0259\u015fkilatlar\u0131n f\u0259aliyy\u0259tini x\u00fcsusil\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m. \u018fvv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 neqativ hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qda operativ t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. O c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n, m\u00fct\u0259madi\u00a0 olaraq paytaxt v\u0259 b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 erk\u0259n nigahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131, onun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 layih\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkil olunur. T\u0259bii ki, bununla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259k olmaz. C\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczvl\u0259ri kimi h\u0259r birimiz d\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131y\u0131q. Yax\u0131n\u0131m\u0131zda olan insanlar\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259li, xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qda bigan\u0259 yana\u015fmamal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n

Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u0259sas \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 m\u0259hz valideynl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Evlilik, birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f, ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 buna son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 ata-analar b\u0259lli bir ya\u015fdan sonra \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. G\u0259ncl\u0259rin ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa t\u0259m\u0259l haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fulub b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckl\u0259ri ail\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015flan\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rinin n\u00fcmun\u0259sind\u0259. \u0130lk \u00f6rn\u0259k ata-anan\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tidir.\u00a0Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar aras\u0131nda cinsi ayr\u0131-se\u00e7kilik yolverilm\u0259zdir. O\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na ail\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n x\u00fcsusi diqq\u0259t, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131nda m\u0259nfi emosiyalara s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

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