M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin ciddi narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan probleml\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n inki\u015fafdan geri qalmas\u0131d\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, son d\u00f6vrl\u0259r bu problem daha geni\u015f v\u00fcs\u0259t alma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131b. B\u0259s bunun yaranma s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri n\u0259l\u0259rdir? Valideynl\u0259r bel\u0259 olduqda n\u0259 etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n
Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 suallar\u0131m\u0131za cavab tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00a0psixoloq\u00a0F\u00f6vqiyy\u0259 Mirz\u0259yeva il\u0259 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t olduq.<\/p>\n
-F\u00f6vqiyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, son zamanlar valideynl\u0259rin narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n\u00a0\u00a0biri d\u0259\u00a0 u\u015faqlardak\u0131\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0inki\u015faf l\u0259ngim\u0259sidir. Sizc\u0259 bunun\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259dir? N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bu problem\u0259 daha \u00e7ox rast g\u0259linir?<\/strong><\/p>\n -\u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259 onu qeyd etm\u0259k istiy\u0259rdim ki, u\u015faqlarda yaranan \u00a0inki\u015faf\u00a0 geriliyinin \u0259sas n\u00f6vl\u0259rind\u0259n biri\u00a0 nitq l\u0259ngim\u0259sidir. M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 daha \u00e7ox rastlanan probleml\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. Nitq l\u0259ngim\u0259si bir ne\u00e7\u0259 patologiyadan ibar\u0259t \u00a0ola bil\u0259r. Bunlara \u0259sas\u0259n, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif b\u0259tndaxili patologiya, d\u00f6l\u00fcn inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131n pozulmas\u0131(toksikoz,viruslu,endokrin x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r,rezus qan uy\u011funsuzlu\u011fu, travma ), do\u011fu\u015f zaman\u0131 travma, okisgen \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131(asfeksiya), u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ilk ya\u015f d\u00f6vrl\u0259rind\u0259 ke\u00e7ikdiyi\u00a0 x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r, beyin silk\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259si, k\u0259ll\u0259 beyin travmas\u0131, irsi faktorlar, \u0259lveri\u015fsiz sosial-m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t \u015f\u0259raitini\u00a0 daxil etm\u0259k olar. U\u015faqlarda yaranan\u00a0 inki\u015faf geriliyi valideynl\u0259rin ciddi probleml\u0259rind\u0259n \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131cas\u0131d\u0131r des\u0259k, daha do\u011fru olar. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 son zamanlar,\u00a0 m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 do\u011fulan u\u015faqlarda bu hallar\u0131n daha \u00e7ox\u00a0 olmas\u0131 fakt\u0131\u00a0 qa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 \u00a0bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n inki\u015faf geriliyini anlam\u0131r, anlasalar da q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259mir v\u0259 yaxud \u00a0q\u0259bul etm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00a0\u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259r \u00a0el\u0259 z\u0259nn edirl\u0259r ki, u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckc\u0259 laz\u0131mi bilik, bacar\u0131q v\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri\u00a0 \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t inki\u015faf geriliyinin daha da pisl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Nitq l\u0259ngim\u0259si t\u0259kc\u0259 inki\u015faf geriliyind\u0259n deyil, dig\u0259r ciddi, patoloji probleml\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259r verir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n fiziki inki\u015faf\u0131nda, qa\u00e7ma, oturma, durma, tutma h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259\u00a0\u00a0geril\u0259m\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 oluna bilir. Amma zehni geril\u0259m\u0259si, daha \u00e7ox qavrama prosesinin formala\u015fmamas\u0131, m\u0259qs\u0259d, s\u0259b\u0259b, n\u0259tic\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n olmamas\u0131 \u00a0kimi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Bu q\u00fcsurlar ilk 4 ya\u015f\u0131na kimi loqopedl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u00fcayin\u0259l\u0259r n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunur. Qeyd edim ki, k\u0259k\u0259lm\u0259 d\u0259 nitq q\u00fcsurunun bir n\u00f6vd\u00fcr.Erk\u0259n seanslar\u0131 daha\u00a0 \u00e7ox effektli olur.<\/p>\n B\u0259s bel\u0259 olduqda n\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r? M\u00fcalic\u0259l\u0259rin u\u015faqlarda yaranan inki\u015faf l\u0259ngim\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259siri olurmu?<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u0130nki\u015faf geril\u0259m\u0259sini\u00a0 ata v\u0259 anan\u0131n q\u0259bul etm\u0259si \u00e7\u0259tin bir prosesdir. Bu problemi aradan qald\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l valideyn u\u015faqda olan q\u00fcsuru q\u0259bul etm\u0259li v\u0259 bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259lidir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, psixoloji \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259r, loqopedikl\u0259r, psixoloqlar v\u0259.s qeyd etm\u0259k olar. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r tez m\u00fcraci\u0259t olunarsa, o q\u0259d\u0259r tez n\u0259tic\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Bu autizmli u\u015faqlara da aiddir. Onlara m\u00fcayin\u0259 2 ya\u015f\u0131nda, nitq q\u00fcsurlu u\u015faqlara is\u0259 4\u00a0 ya\u015f\u0131ndan gec olmayaraq ba\u015flan\u0131l\u0131r. Zaman\u0131nda g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131nauy\u011fun davranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olacaq. Bel\u0259 hallar ba\u015f verdikd\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u00fcalic\u0259 olunmas\u0131 vacib \u015f\u0259rtdir. \u018fsas\u0259n d\u0259 m\u00fcalic\u0259 nevropatoloq, psixoloq, loqoped, pediatr, ortoped v\u0259 s. m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin n\u0259zar\u0259ti il\u0259 kompleks \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar h\u0259r g\u00fcn eyni saatda yatmal\u0131, eyni vaxtda oyanmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u0130nki\u015faf l\u0259ngim\u0259sinin daha tez aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vaxt\u0131nda\u00a0 t\u0259dbir g\u00f6rm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n -F\u00f6vqiyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, valideynl\u0259r\u0259 bu bar\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 ed\u0259rdiniz? Y\u0259ni valideynl\u0259r n\u0259 etm\u0259lidir?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Bunu qeyd edim ki, valideynl\u0259r bel\u0259 olduqda u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 daha \u00e7ox zaman ke\u00e7irm\u0259li, onlar\u0131n sa\u011falmas\u0131na inanmal\u0131, u\u015faqlar\u0131nda yaranan inki\u015faf geriliyini q\u0259bul etm\u0259lidir. Valideynl\u0259r\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzularda maarifl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131nda olan q\u00fcsurlar\u0131 q\u0259bul edib aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259l\u0259rini t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 ed\u0259rdim. U\u015faqlarda nitqin formala\u015fmas\u0131 prosesin\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Nitqd\u0259 olan q\u00fcsurlar vaxt\u0131nda valideynl\u0259r v\u0259 ya m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n a\u015fkarlanmal\u0131 v\u0259 korreksiya edilm\u0259lidir. Valideynl\u0259r\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etm\u0259l\u0259rini, onlara maraq v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259l\u0259rini inadla\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir\u0259m. H\u0259r hans\u0131 bir problem hiss etdikd\u0259 narahat olub d\u0259rhal m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis\u0259 \u00a0m\u00fctl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etsinl\u0259r. Son olaraq onu da qeyd edim ki, \u00a0bu problemin aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n sosialla\u015fmas\u0131na da d\u0259st\u0259k olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bu probleml\u0259rin erk\u0259n diaqnostikas\u0131 m\u00fcvafiq m\u00fcalic\u0259nin apar\u0131lmas\u0131na, b\u0259zi hallarda is\u0259 onlardan tamamil\u0259 qurtulma\u011fa \u015f\u0259rait yaradacaq. Nitq inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131n l\u0259ngim\u0259sinin m\u00fcalic\u0259sinin\u00a0 kompleks \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 apar\u0131lmas\u0131 laz\u0131m olan\u00a0 amill\u0259rd\u0259ndir.<\/p>\n \u00a0Mehriban X\u0259lilli<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin ciddi narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan probleml\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n inki\u015fafdan geri qalmas\u0131d\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, son d\u00f6vrl\u0259r bu problem daha geni\u015f v\u00fcs\u0259t alma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131b. B\u0259s bunun yaranma s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri n\u0259l\u0259rdir? Valideynl\u0259r bel\u0259 olduqda n\u0259 etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r? Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 suallar\u0131m\u0131za cavab tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00a0psixoloq\u00a0F\u00f6vqiyy\u0259 Mirz\u0259yeva il\u0259 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t olduq. -F\u00f6vqiyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, son zamanlar valideynl\u0259rin narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n\u00a0\u00a0biri […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13782,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-trend"],"yoast_head":"\n