U\u015faql\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fc h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259dir. Ana b\u0259tnind\u0259n ba\u015flayan v\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n 18 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r davam etdiyi q\u0259bul edil\u0259n bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t insan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi formala\u015fmas\u0131nda m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259n ist\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259r bir valideyn onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. B\u0259z\u0259n daha yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat namin\u0259 i\u015f saatlar\u0131ndan \u0259lav\u0259 olaraq da dig\u0259r f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olaraq ail\u0259nin maddi durumunu yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, bunu bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n t\u0259qdir\u0259layiq \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131laya bil\u0259rik. Lakin b\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259ddind\u0259n \u00e7ox i\u015f\u0259 alud\u0259\u00e7ilik ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259sirini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r i\u015f saatlar\u0131ndan sonra ail\u0259d\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar g\u0259rginliy\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259 bilir v\u0259 bunun f\u0259sadlar\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r deyil, u\u015faqlar da ya\u015fay\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259m ata, h\u0259m d\u0259 analar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaqdad\u0131r. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 orta g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015f saat\u0131 8 saat t\u0259\u015fkil edir, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n yolda itiril\u0259n vaxt\u0131 \u0259lav\u0259 ed\u0259rs\u0259k, t\u0259xmin\u0259n 9-10 saat h\u0259r g\u00fcn evd\u0259n k\u0259narda vaxt ke\u00e7irilir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n ki\u00e7ik ya\u015fl\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 olan, \u00f6zl\u0259ri is\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan valideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu amil daha m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259b, qay\u011f\u0131l\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ke\u00e7ir. Do\u011frudur, bir \u00e7ox ata, analar i\u015f\u0259 ged\u0259rk\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 yax\u0131nlar\u0131 v\u0259 ya qon\u015fular\u0131na t\u0259slim edirl\u0259r, lakin bu \u015fans\u0131 olmayan yet\u0259rinc\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin d\u0259 oldu\u011funu unutmaq olmaz. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq ki, \u0259ks\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 ora aparmaq v\u0259 orda qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalmaq \u015f\u0259raitl\u0259ri m\u0259hduddur, o zaman h\u0259min valideynl\u0259rin m\u0259cburiyy\u0259td\u0259n olsa bel\u0259 c\u0259mi bir yolu qal\u0131r \u2013 \u00f6vlad\u0131 evd\u0259 t\u0259k qoymaq.
\nB\u0259zi \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r burada qeyri-adi he\u00e7 n\u0259yin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6zl\u0259rinin d\u0259 daha \u0259vv\u0259lki zamanlarda evd\u0259 t\u0259k qald\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 bildirirl\u0259r. Lakin n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, m\u00fct\u0259madi olaraq evd\u0259 yaln\u0131z qalan u\u015faq v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r bunun f\u0259sadlar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n sonrak\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar.
\nApar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, h\u0259l\u0259 8-10 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 t\u0259hsil alan u\u015faqlar\u0131n bir ne\u00e7\u0259 saatdan art\u0131q t\u0259k qalmas\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 olunmur. Burada \u0259n uy\u011fun ya\u015f s\u0259rh\u0259di kimi 12 ya\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Buna s\u0259b\u0259b h\u0259min ya\u015fdan etibar\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rini daha rahat idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259si, \u00e7\u0259tin situasiyalarda do\u011fru q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259 imkan\u0131, evd\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 rahatl\u0131qla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ola bilm\u0259sidir. Lakin qeyd olunan ya\u015f s\u0259ddind\u0259n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olan dig\u0259r u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evd\u0259 t\u0259klik m\u00fcxt\u0259lif psixoloji v\u0259 fiziki f\u0259sadlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r.
\nBir qayda olaraq ail\u0259 diqq\u0259tind\u0259n uzaq olan, evd\u0259 daha \u00e7ox yaln\u0131z olan u\u015faqlar v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 aqressiya, stres\u0259 meyillilik, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259crid etm\u0259k, \u015fidd\u0259t, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inam yet\u0259rsizliyi, qida, yuxu pozuntular\u0131 v\u0259 dig\u0259r psixoloji narahatl\u0131qlar m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. B\u0259z\u0259n bu hallar daha faci\u0259li sonluqlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir, u\u015faqlar evd\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 x\u0259sar\u0259t yetir\u0259 bilir, h\u0259tta bilm\u0259y\u0259r\u0259kd\u0259n olsa bel\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131na son qoyurlar.
\nBunu da qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, son zamanlar sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 informasiya portallar\u0131nda evd\u0259 yaln\u0131z qalan u\u015faqlar\u0131n sanki f\u0259ryad etm\u0259k g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259rini g\u00f6rm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131r\u0131q. Do\u011frudur, aidiyyat\u0131 qurumlar h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259r\u0259k profilaktik g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r apar\u0131b, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259r veribl\u0259r. Amma onu da n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almal\u0131y\u0131q ki, bu bizim qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ilk hadis\u0259l\u0259r deyil. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259rini ist\u0259r virtual al\u0259md\u0259, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif layih\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259dbirl\u0259r, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.
\nBununla yana\u015f\u0131 burada valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6hd\u0259liyin\u0259 bir s\u0131ra vacib v\u0259 diqq\u0259t edilm\u0259li olan v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 saatdan art\u0131q yaln\u0131z qoymay\u0131n. \u018fg\u0259r bu imkan olmasa bel\u0259, onlar\u0131 yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 ya g\u00fcv\u0259ndiyiniz \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 \u0259man\u0259t edin. Daha b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u015faqlar v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00fcnl\u00fck qrafikl\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ed\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131n t\u0259k qalmaq hissl\u0259rini qism\u0259n aradan qald\u0131ra bil\u0259rsiz. \u0130\u015f saatlar\u0131ndan sonra \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131za zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n, onlarla birlikd\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olun, birlikd\u0259 d\u0259rs v\u0259 tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar, onlar\u0131n sevdiyi m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri edin.
\nQeyd etdiyim amill\u0259ri yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259kl\u0259 yarana bil\u0259c\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn psixoloji v\u0259 fiziki f\u0259sadlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ala bil\u0259rsiz. Bunlardan savay\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131zda h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir ciddi psixoloji narahatl\u0131qlar hiss ets\u0259niz, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259niz t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 olunur.
\nUnutmayaq ki, u\u015faqlar bizim g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizdir. Daha sa\u011flam, faydal\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259t formala\u015fd\u0131ra bils\u0259k, biz daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 sa\u011flam g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 nail ola bil\u0259c\u0259yik.<\/p>\n
T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLoqos\u201d Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/p>\n Psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" U\u015faql\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fc h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259dir. Ana b\u0259tnind\u0259n ba\u015flayan v\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n 18 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r davam etdiyi q\u0259bul edil\u0259n bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t insan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi formala\u015fmas\u0131nda m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259n ist\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259r bir valideyn onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. B\u0259z\u0259n daha yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat namin\u0259 i\u015f saatlar\u0131ndan \u0259lav\u0259 olaraq da dig\u0259r f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14389","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society"],"yoast_head":"\n