Son g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 ictimaiyy\u0259td\u0259 geni\u015f rezonans v\u0259 naraz\u0131l\u0131qla qar\u015f\u0131lanan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tirm\u0259sidir. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, bel\u0259 neqativ hallar\u0131n olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Do\u011frudur, bu kimi hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131 istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 aidiyat\u0131 qurumlar bir \u00e7ox t\u0259dbirl\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irs\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259madi bu kimi x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri e\u015fitm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n
16 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n ana olmas\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lark\u0259n dig\u0259r bir t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfedici m\u0259qam da ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b. Bel\u0259 ki, h\u0259min yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z 14 ya\u015f\u0131nda olark\u0259n ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurub. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u0259slind\u0259 bir yox, iki m\u0259qam ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Erk\u0259n anal\u0131qla yana\u015f\u0131, erk\u0259n nikah problemi. H\u0259r iki m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 is\u0259 h\u0259r zaman c\u0259miyy\u0259timizin aktual probleml\u0259ri s\u0131ras\u0131nda qalmaqda davam edir.<\/p>\n
Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yol a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 psixoloji aspektd\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259rk\u0259n, bir \u00e7ox hallar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r:\u00a0 Bu hallardan \u0259n \u00e7ox t\u0259sad\u00fcf edil\u0259nl\u0259r Obsessiv-Kompulsiv pozuntu \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259ri, depressiya, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f pozuntular\u0131 v\u0259 buna paralel ba\u015f ver\u0259n panik ataklard\u0131r. Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259b oldu\u011fu Obsessiv-Kompulsiv pozuntunun meydana \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131na z\u0259min yaradan \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259b t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin cinsi akta h\u0259l\u0259 haz\u0131r olmamas\u0131 v\u0259 ya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu akt\u0131n ba\u015f verm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haz\u0131r hiss etm\u0259m\u0259sidir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 e\u015fitdiyi v\u0259 inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u0131ra cinsi mifl\u0259r d\u0259 bu pozuntunun yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Erk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259rin vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmamas\u0131 v\u0259 aqressiyan\u0131n daxild\u0259 toplanmas\u0131, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin toplanmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t b\u0259hsi ged\u0259n neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u00fcur alt\u0131nda toplan\u0131r v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 panik ataklar formas\u0131nda\u00a0\u00a0\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir.<\/p>\n
Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 erk\u0259n ya\u015flarda q\u0131zlar\u0131n ana olmas\u0131d\u0131r. K\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc v\u0259 ya m\u0259cburi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ana olan yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131zlar bir qayda olaraq bunun fiziki, psixoloji f\u0259sadlar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n sonrak\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
M\u0259lumat \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, bug\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n hormonal olaraq formala\u015fmas\u0131 \u0259vv\u0259lki ill\u0259rl\u0259 il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 eyni s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 deyildir. Apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar da s\u00fcbut edir ki, yeyiyetm\u0259lik ya\u015f\u0131 art\u0131q daha da cavanla\u015f\u0131b. Buna baxmayaraq 14 v\u0259 ya 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan xan\u0131m\u0131n orqanizminin tam formala\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 dem\u0259k olmaz. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 bir qayda olaraq h\u0259min ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131nda olan q\u0131zlar\u0131n hamil\u0259 qal\u0131nmas\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t edilmir.<\/p>\n
Erk\u0259n hamil\u0259lik v\u0259 ana olma\u011f\u0131n psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 da \u00e7ox olur. B\u0259d\u0259n buna haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn psixoloji olaraq beyin v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 buna haz\u0131r olmur. \u00d6z\u00fc h\u0259l\u0259 tam yetkinl\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259n bir qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vlad\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. O ya\u015fda anal\u0131\u011f\u0131 tam \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259rk etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 psixoloji v\u0259 fizioloji faktorlar paralellik t\u0259\u015fkil edir.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259daxili naraz\u0131l\u0131q, maddi-sosial v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin q\u0259na\u0259tb\u0259x\u015f olmamas\u0131 v\u0259 dig\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n yaranan probleml\u0259r zaman\u0131 erk\u0259n ya\u015f\u0131nda ana olan q\u0131zlarda utanc, g\u00fcnahkarl\u0131q duy\u011fular\u0131 is\u0259 insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259traf\u0131ndan t\u0259crid etm\u0259sin\u0259, t\u0259nhal\u0131\u011fa, \u00fcmidsizliy\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur, aqressiya, natamaml\u0131q kompleksi, stress, depressiv hallar\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Qeyd etdiyim amill\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ana olmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n b\u0259zi q\u0131zlar b\u0259d\u0259nin tam formala\u015fmamas\u0131, \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sini rahat v\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259si s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n do\u011fu\u015f zaman\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 itirir, \u00f6zl\u0259ri is\u0259 sa\u011flaml\u0131qlar\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ciddi f\u0259sadlarla \u00fczl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. Bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 \u00f6z can\u0131ndan olan birini itirm\u0259yi q\u0259bullana bilmir, \u00f6zl\u0259rini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flam\u0131r, h\u0259tta m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vasit\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 x\u0259sar\u0259t yetir\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, b\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallar\u0131n sonu \u00f6l\u00fcml\u0259 d\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n
Do\u011frudur, bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda ist\u0259r erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ana olan q\u0131zlar\u0131n nisb\u0259ti a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259dir, lakin h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259madi bu c\u00fcr hallarla \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259yimiz ona dem\u0259y\u0259 imkan verir ki, kompleks v\u0259 koordinasiyalar\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259dbirl\u0259r, maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti davam etdirilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 aidiyat\u0131 qurumlar, h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131, t\u0259\u015fkilatlar\u0131n f\u0259aliyy\u0259tini x\u00fcsusil\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m. \u018fvv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 neqativ hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qda operativ t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. O c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n, m\u00fct\u0259madi\u00a0 olaraq paytaxt v\u0259 b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 erk\u0259n nigahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131, onun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 layih\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkil olunur. T\u0259bii ki, bununla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259k olmaz.<\/p>\n
Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u0259sas \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 m\u0259hz valideynl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Evlilik, birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f, ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 buna son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 ata-analar b\u0259lli bir ya\u015fdan sonra \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. G\u0259ncl\u0259rin ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa t\u0259m\u0259l haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fulub b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckl\u0259ri ail\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015flan\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rinin n\u00fcmun\u0259sind\u0259.<\/p>\n
Yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u00fcsusi diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li bir zamand\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n daim yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funu hiss etdirm\u0259li, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131se\u00e7kilik etm\u0259m\u0259li, onlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131, t\u0259hsil alma\u011f\u0131na, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi tam \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 formala\u015fmas\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yaratmal\u0131, d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259rini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
C\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczvl\u0259ri kimi h\u0259r birimiz d\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131y\u0131q. Yax\u0131n\u0131m\u0131zda olan insanlar\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259li, xo\u015fa g\u0259lm\u0259z hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qda bigan\u0259 yana\u015fmamal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n
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T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLoqos\u201d Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/p>\n Psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Son g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 ictimaiyy\u0259td\u0259 geni\u015f rezonans v\u0259 naraz\u0131l\u0131qla qar\u015f\u0131lanan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tirm\u0259sidir. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, bel\u0259 neqativ hallar\u0131n olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Do\u011frudur, bu kimi hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131 istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 aidiyat\u0131 qurumlar bir \u00e7ox t\u0259dbirl\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irs\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259madi bu kimi x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri e\u015fitm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131r\u0131q. 16 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15300,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15299","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society"],"yoast_head":"\n