C\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq son g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n bu xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hadis\u0259l\u0259rin n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri h\u0259r birimizi narahat etm\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259z. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259 idman yar\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan birind\u0259 20 ya\u015fl\u0131 g\u0259nc v\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n hadis\u0259d\u0259n h\u0259r birimiz x\u0259b\u0259rdar\u0131q. Ki\u00e7ik bir m\u00f6vzuda s\u00f6z davas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u015flayan m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 daha da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259r\u0259k sonda 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259nin b\u0131\u00e7aqlanmas\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0259tli il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ndi. Bu hadis\u0259 ictimaiyy\u0259t aras\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fck ajiotaj yaratd\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259r birimizin \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b oldu. Bununla yana\u015f\u0131 \u00f6t\u0259n g\u00fcn G\u0259nc\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rind\u0259 iki ali t\u0259hsil m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sinin t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259ri aras\u0131nda oyun zaman\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259n k\u00fctl\u0259vi dava da sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 media orqanlar\u0131nda s\u00fcr\u0259tli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yay\u0131lma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131. Do\u011frudur, bu hadis\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6l\u00fcm v\u0259 ya ciddi x\u0259sar\u0259t olmasa da, ba\u015f ver\u0259n buc\u00fcr hadis\u0259l\u0259r \u0259slind\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q siqnal\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n
Bir psixoloq kimi qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 g\u0259nclik d\u00f6vr\u00fc dig\u0259r ya\u015f d\u00f6vrl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 daha m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259b v\u0259 diqq\u0259t edilm\u0259li m\u0259qamd\u0131r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n bu d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 insan psixologiyas\u0131nda ciddi d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur, h\u0259tta psixi x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r bel\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Ke\u00e7id d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir, h\u0259r zaman sakit olan insanlarda aqressiv, depressiv hallar ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, ba\u015fqa s\u00f6zl\u0259 h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 tamamil\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259nlikl\u0259r m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z istiqam\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si, aqressivliyin h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q artmas\u0131, m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tinin \u00e7ox d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259si, z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 meyilliyin yaranmas\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin ail\u0259l\u0259ri, m\u00fchiti x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q siqnal\u0131 da\u015f\u0131maqdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Simptomlar a\u011f\u0131rla\u015fd\u0131qda insan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r verm\u0259k, intihara meyilliyin yaranmas\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki bu proses he\u00e7 bir zaman anid\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rmir. Qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 zaman\u0131nda al\u0131nmad\u0131qda v\u0259 laz\u0131mi m\u00fcdaxil\u0259l\u0259r edilm\u0259dikd\u0259, h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r h\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u0259trafdak\u0131lara z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259 bilirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitir\u0259n, universitetd\u0259 v\u0259 ya kollecd\u0259 t\u0259hsil alan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259rb\u0259stlik, azadl\u0131q verir v\u0259 \u00f6z ayaqlar\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 dura bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 arxay\u0131n olurlar. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259stlik verm\u0259k t\u0259qdir\u0259layiqdir, lakin h\u0259r zaman s\u0131x ail\u0259 v\u0259 valideyn n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 olan\u00a0 bir g\u0259ncin birba\u015fa h\u0259yata at\u0131lmas\u0131 onun sonunun yax\u015f\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131na qarant vermir. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq ki, bug\u00fcn \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 daha \u00e7ox\u00a0 ali t\u0259hsil m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259ri Bak\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rind\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015fir v\u0259 t\u0259hsil alan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck bir hiss\u0259si region g\u0259ncl\u0259ridir, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn adaptasiya daha da \u00e7\u0259tin olur. Bu da b\u0259zi hallarda sonda he\u00e7 kim\u0259 arzu etm\u0259diyimiz hallarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n
Yenid\u0259n qay\u0131tsaq bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259ki q\u0259tl hadis\u0259sin\u0259, \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n g\u0259ncin atas\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini diqq\u0259tl\u0259 analiz ets\u0259k, \u0259slind\u0259 hadis\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259min g\u0259ncin m\u00fchitini t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr etm\u0259k o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tin deyil. \u018fm\u0259kdar m\u0259\u015fq\u00e7i olan ata fikirl\u0259rind\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 idman\u00e7\u0131 kimi formala\u015fd\u0131rsa da, onu c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 tam haz\u0131rlamama\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6l\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259nin v\u0259 \u00f6z ail\u0259sinin \u00e7\u0131ra\u011f\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6nm\u0259sinin ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, pe\u015fman\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kdiyini g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n
Hadis\u0259 zaman\u0131 \u0259n \u00e7ox veril\u0259n sullardan biri d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259ni \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n g\u0259ncd\u0259 b\u0131\u00e7aq olmas\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259di oldu. \u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bug\u00fcn yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin he\u00e7d\u0259 az olmayan qismind\u0259 \u201csoyuq silah\u201d kimi bildiyimiz vasit\u0259l\u0259r vard\u0131r v\u0259 onlar bu al\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00fcz\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259 g\u0259zdirirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edirik ki, onlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti bunu \u00f6zl\u0259rini m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 ya \u00f6z g\u00fccl\u0259rini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi qorxutmaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 g\u0259zdirdikl\u0259rini bildir\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 haqq qazand\u0131r\u0131rlar. Amma n\u0259 deyilm\u0259si v\u0259 ya nec\u0259 olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, \u201csoyuq silah\u201d\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 olmas\u0131 h\u0259r hans\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259n m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259nin sonunda xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hadis\u0259nin ba\u015f verm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini s\u00fcbut etmir. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almal\u0131y\u0131q ki, bu tip xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hadis\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259r birimizin ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ifad\u0259 etm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n
T\u0259bii ki, bu c\u00fcr m\u0259nfi hadis\u0259l\u0259rin q\u0131sa zamanda birba\u015fa qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq qeyri-m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Lakin planl\u0131 v\u0259 uzunm\u00fcdd\u0259tli f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 nail olmaq olar. Bu f\u0259aliyy\u0259td\u0259 is\u0259 h\u0259r birimiz yax\u0131ndan i\u015ftirak etm\u0259liyik. Bug\u00fcn aidiyat\u0131 qurumlar m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n t\u0259dbirl\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irirl\u0259r, dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n ictimai birlikl\u0259r, bu sah\u0259d\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n t\u0259\u015fkilatlar v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq h\u0259r birimiz bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 f\u0259al olmal\u0131, \u00f6z d\u0259st\u0259yimizi g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n
T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLoqos\u201d Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/p>\n Psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" C\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq son g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n bu xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hadis\u0259l\u0259rin n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri h\u0259r birimizi narahat etm\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259z. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259 idman yar\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan birind\u0259 20 ya\u015fl\u0131 g\u0259nc v\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n hadis\u0259d\u0259n h\u0259r birimiz x\u0259b\u0259rdar\u0131q. Ki\u00e7ik bir m\u00f6vzuda s\u00f6z davas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u015flayan m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 daha da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259r\u0259k […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18683,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-featured","category-society"],"yoast_head":"\n