Son zamanlar sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, saytlar v\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi informasiya vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t v\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bunu da qeyd etm\u0259liyik ki, ist\u0259r h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 dig\u0259r aidiyyat\u0131 qurumlar bel\u0259 h\u0259ssas m\u0259qamlarda operativ davran\u0131r, laz\u0131mi t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. Amma \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, b\u0259zi hallarda bel\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallar ictimail\u0259\u015fm\u0259diyi, ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 ba\u015f verdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 bir t\u0259dbir g\u00f6rm\u0259k olmur. \u018fks\u0259r hallarda valideynl\u0259r, yax\u0131n qohumlar u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t, zorak\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259, onlar\u0131 t\u0259hqir ed\u0259r\u0259k v\u0259 ya d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259k parlaq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini m\u0259hv edirl\u0259r, fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji travmalarla \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 qoyurlar.<\/p>\n
\u015eidd\u0259tin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoloji probleml\u0259r qal\u0131c\u0131 ola bilir, b\u0259z\u0259n onun m\u00fcalic\u0259si uzunm\u00fcdd\u0259tli davam edir. Psixoloq kimi qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, u\u015faq v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t problemi t\u0259kc\u0259 onlar\u0131n d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259si, t\u0259hqir edilm\u0259si il\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259nmir, ail\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259t, y\u0259ni bir ail\u0259 \u00fczv\u00fcn\u00fcn dig\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 etdiyi fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259t d\u0259 onlara t\u0259sir edir. M\u00fct\u0259madi \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n u\u015faqlarda ruhi v\u0259 psixoloji probleml\u0259r qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz olur.<\/p>\n
Bununla yana\u015f\u0131 son zamanlarda u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 onlar\u0131n tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n edil\u0259n zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, artmaqd\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n buc\u00fcr neqativ hallar\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rsaq, g\u00f6r\u0259rik ki, u\u015faqlara m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u0259kanlarda- k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, binan\u0131n h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131qdan sonra \u00e7ox insan olmayan \u0259razil\u0259rd\u0259 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00fcsullarla t\u0259klifl\u0259r edilir, onlarla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6z zorak\u0131l\u0131q ist\u0259kl\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Zorak\u0131l\u0131q hans\u0131 tip v\u0259 kim t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq travman\u0131n bir n\u00f6v\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri v\u0259 sevdikl\u0259ri insanlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u015fidd\u0259t, zorak\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6r\u0259n u\u015faq v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloji travmalar daha y\u0131x\u0131c\u0131 olur.\u201d<\/p>\n
Zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlarda psixoloji v\u0259 fiziki f\u0259sadlar zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha qabar\u0131q formada g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 v\u0259 ya k\u0259narda \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 \u015fahid oldu\u011fu v\u0259 ya m\u0259ruz qald\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman eyni h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri, h\u0259tta daha \u00e7oxunu ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. H\u0259min insanlarda bunun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 bir-birind\u0259n f\u0259rqli olaraq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Stress, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259qapanma, t\u0259k qalmaq ist\u0259yi, asosiall\u0131q,aqressiya, depressiya v\u0259 dig\u0259r psixoloji narahatl\u0131qlar \u0259n \u00e7ox qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r s\u0131ras\u0131ndad\u0131r. Bundan savay\u0131 h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 yuxu v\u0259 i\u015ftah probleml\u0259ri d\u0259 n\u00f6vb\u0259ti m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Yuxu poz\u011funlu\u011fu, yatan zaman kabus g\u00f6rm\u0259k, i\u015ftahs\u0131zl\u0131q v\u0259\u00a0\u00a0\u00e7\u0259ki itirm\u0259k n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 onlarda ruhi d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r d\u0259 hiss edilir. Bu d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259nlikl\u0259rd\u0259n sonra yeni qorxular ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, g\u0259rgin olur, daha \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r etm\u0259diyi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdir\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015faq psixoloji travma il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 fiziki travma da ya\u015fay\u0131rsa, onun fiziki inki\u015faf\u0131nda da \u00e7\u0259tinlik ortaya \u00e7\u0131xa bilir. D\u00fcnya \u00fczr\u0259 apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, u\u015faq vaxtlar\u0131nda fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6r\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin bir \u00e7oxunda bu travma \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u0259rinin sonrak\u0131 30-40 ilind\u0259 hiss olunur. Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 quran insanlar u\u015faql\u0131q zaman\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259ti \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
U\u015faqlar bu \u015fidd\u0259ti ba\u011f\u00e7ada, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, universitetd\u0259, h\u0259y\u0259td\u0259, qonaql\u0131qda, ba\u015fqa s\u00f6zl\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki h\u0259r yerd\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdir\u0259 bil\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259r bunun f\u0259rqin\u0259 varmasa da, u\u015faqlarda onlara qar\u015f\u0131 nifr\u0259t, aqressiya yaran\u0131r, kobudluq n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirilir v\u0259 h\u0259tta b\u0259zi daha a\u011f\u0131r f\u0259sadlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir.<\/p>\n
B\u0259s bel\u0259 anlarda nec\u0259 davran\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r? \u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259 u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t \u00fcsullar\u0131ndan uzaq olun. H\u0259r hans\u0131 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z bir \u015fey ed\u0259rs\u0259, daha yum\u015faq v\u0259 ya onlar\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00fczm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 c\u0259za t\u0259yin edin.U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131za zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n, onlar\u0131 qucaqlay\u0131n, xo\u015fm\u0259nal\u0131 ifad\u0259l\u0259r s\u00f6yl\u0259yin,sevdiyinizi g\u00f6st\u0259rin. Onlarla m\u0259saf\u0259 saxlamay\u0131n, h\u0259tta ya\u015flar\u0131 az olsa bel\u0259 onlar\u0131n dedikl\u0259rin\u0259 diqq\u0259t etdiyinizi hiss etdirin, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir s\u0259hv etdikd\u0259, yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzu n\u00fcmay\u0131\u015f etdirin. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 ba\u015f verdikd\u0259, problemi \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259 yox, dan\u0131\u015faraq h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n v\u0259 bunu u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yan\u0131nda etm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n
Bundan savay\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmaqdan \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259li oldu\u011funu, o c\u00fcr \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259n uzaqda durma\u011f\u0131 sakit v\u0259 onlar\u0131n anlayaca\u011f\u0131 t\u0259rzd\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r bacard\u0131qca \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259zar\u0259tsiz qoymamal\u0131, daim diqq\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 saxlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Unutmaq olmaz ki, fiziki, emosional v\u0259 ya cinsi zorak\u0131l\u0131q olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq \u015fidd\u0259t v\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan insanlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda g\u0259rginlikl\u0259r v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fikilkl\u0259rin m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilm\u0259si g\u00f6zl\u0259nil\u0259ndir.<\/p>\n
Qeyd etdiyim amill\u0259r ilk bax\u0131\u015fda sad\u0259, amma vacib v\u0259 diqq\u0259t edilm\u0259li m\u0259qamlard\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r ki, daha \u00f6nc\u0259d\u0259n olan v\u0259 onun fiziki, psixoloji formala\u015fmas\u0131na t\u0259sir ed\u0259n n\u0259l\u0259rs\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edil\u0259rs\u0259, m\u00fcvafiq sah\u0259nin pe\u015f\u0259karlar\u0131na m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin. Unutmayaq ki, h\u0259r bir u\u015faq t\u0259kc\u0259 ail\u0259nin yox, h\u0259m\u00e7inin bu \u00f6lk\u0259nin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yidir.G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimiz\u0259 sahib \u00e7\u0131xmaq is\u0259 h\u0259r birimizin borcudur.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLoqos\u201d Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/p>\n Psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Son zamanlar sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, saytlar v\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi informasiya vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t v\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. Bunu da qeyd etm\u0259liyik ki, ist\u0259r h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 dig\u0259r aidiyyat\u0131 qurumlar bel\u0259 h\u0259ssas m\u0259qamlarda operativ davran\u0131r, laz\u0131mi t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. Amma \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, b\u0259zi hallarda bel\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallar ictimail\u0259\u015fm\u0259diyi, ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 ba\u015f verdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15628,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20445","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society"],"yoast_head":"\n