H\u0259yatda h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131ca arzusu ist\u0259r karyeras\u0131nda, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131nda u\u011furlu olmaqd\u0131r. H\u0259r k\u0259s bunu arzu edir, amma ham\u0131 u\u011fur qazana bilmir. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259kc\u0259 x\u0259yal etm\u0259k kifay\u0259t etmir. U\u011fur qazanmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs bu yolda m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131, f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir. M\u0259hz dedikl\u0259rimizd\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k, sonda ist\u0259diyimiz n\u0259tic\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn diqq\u0259t edilm\u0259li olan “U\u011fur formulu”na n\u0259z\u0259r yetir\u0259k.<\/p>\n
Se\u00e7im <\/strong><\/p>\n G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizin u\u011furlu olub-olmamas\u0131 bizim se\u00e7iml\u0259rimizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. U\u011furlu se\u00e7im etm\u0259k h\u0259r k\u0259sin ist\u0259yi olsa da, he\u00e7 d\u0259 ham\u0131 buna nail ola bilmir. H\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif d\u00f6n\u0259ml\u0259rind\u0259 se\u00e7iml\u0259r etm\u0259li oluruq. U\u015faql\u0131q vaxt\u0131nda se\u00e7diyimiz dostlar\u0131m\u0131zdan ba\u015flayaraq, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizi m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ed\u0259n t\u0259hsil, i\u015f v\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7iml\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r. Bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259r birind\u0259 u\u011furlu se\u00e7im etm\u0259k is\u0259 h\u0259rk\u0259s\u0259 qism\u0259t olmur. S\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir: Do\u011fru olmayan se\u00e7iml\u0259r, d\u00fczg\u00fcn q\u0259rar verm\u0259m\u0259k, k\u0259nar t\u0259sirl\u0259rin olmas\u0131 v\u0259 s. Bu g\u00fcn bizim \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn etdiyimiz se\u00e7im v\u0259 q\u0259rarlarla yana\u015f\u0131, \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zda olan insanlar\u0131n da, t\u0259sirl\u0259ri dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259rin, qohum-\u0259qr\u0259ban\u0131n v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin dig\u0259r \u00fczvl\u0259rinin g\u0259ncl\u0259rin se\u00e7iml\u0259r v\u0259 q\u0259rarlar\u0131na m\u00fcdaxil\u0259l\u0259ri dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n se\u00e7im v\u0259 q\u0259rarlar\u0131na m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin h\u0259yat\u0131na birba\u015fa m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 dem\u0259kdir. Do\u011frudur, biz ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini dinl\u0259m\u0259li, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7\u0131xarmal\u0131y\u0131q. Amma yekun q\u0259rar verm\u0259k v\u0259 se\u00e7im etm\u0259k biz\u0259 m\u0259xsusdur. Se\u00e7iml\u0259rimizi el\u0259 etm\u0259liyik ki, sonra pe\u015fman\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q hissi yaratmas\u0131n!<\/p>\n M\u0259qs\u0259d <\/strong><\/p>\n Se\u00e7iml\u0259rin u\u011furlu olmas\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259yin edil\u0259n m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r k\u0259s qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na qoydu\u011fu m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7atmaq ist\u0259yir. Amma m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7atmaq u\u011frunda sona q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apar\u0131b, ist\u0259diyi n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 nail olmaq h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 n\u0259sib olmur. M\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r u\u011frunda vuru\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259kc\u0259 bilikli olmaq kifay\u0259t deyil. Unutmayaq ki, m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 nail olmaq asan m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 deyil. Bu m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131xan \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri d\u0259f etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn savadl\u0131 olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131, m\u00fcbarizkar v\u0259 stratejik olmaq da laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n B\u0259z\u0259n m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131qda, bununla raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131b, kifay\u0259tl\u0259nilir. M\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rimiz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman bununla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259liyik. H\u0259yat davam edir, h\u0259r g\u00fcn d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda yenilikl\u0259rl\u0259 z\u0259nginl\u0259\u015fir. Daha b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u011furlara nail olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, yeni h\u0259d\u0259f v\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259si v\u0259 onun u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Biz m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131qda, m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rimiz b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, u\u011furlu g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 yollan\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n M\u00fcbariz\u0259 <\/strong><\/p>\n U\u011fur h\u0259r k\u0259sin ist\u0259diyi, amma ham\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259diyi hissdir. \u0130\u015f adamlar\u0131, siyas\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259r, idman\u00e7\u0131lar, aktyorlar v\u0259 dig\u0259r m\u0259h\u015fur \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin u\u011fur hekay\u0259l\u0259rini oxuduq v\u0259 izl\u0259dikc\u0259, onlar\u0131n \u00f6z u\u011fur hekay\u0259l\u0259rini yazana q\u0259d\u0259r nec\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apard\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 heyr\u0259tl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r\u0131q. Unutmayaq ki, onlar da bizl\u0259rd\u0259n biridirl\u0259r. U\u011furlu olmalar\u0131 onlar\u0131n \u00f6z m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sona q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmaqlar\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. U\u011furlu olmaq, m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rimiz\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sona q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n M\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmaq bizi daha d\u00f6y\u00fc\u015fk\u0259n v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc edir. Bu yolda t\u0259kc\u0259 kiml\u0259rl\u0259s\u0259 deyil, \u00f6z\u00fcnl\u0259 d\u0259, m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131 olursan. \u0130nsan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc f\u0259th etm\u0259dikc\u0259, he\u00e7 kim v\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259yi f\u0259th ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. B\u0259z\u0259n k\u0259nar m\u00fcdaxil\u0259l\u0259r u\u011fur yolunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 mane\u0259l\u0259r yarad\u0131r. Mane\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259f etm\u0259k, bizim \u0259zmimiz v\u0259 inadkarl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 m\u00fcbarizliyimizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bu m\u00fcbariz\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n qalib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, \u00f6z u\u011fur hekay\u0259l\u0259rimizi yazmal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n U\u011fursuzluq <\/strong><\/p>\n Bilirik ki, h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7atmaq h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 n\u0259sib olmur. U\u011fursuzluq anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 he\u00e7 k\u0259sin e\u015fitm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259diyi, amma qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaq z\u0259rur\u0259tind\u0259 oldu\u011fu bir situasiyad\u0131r. \u018fks\u0259r insanlar bu ifad\u0259ni q\u0259buledilm\u0259z v\u0259 nifr\u0259tl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131rlar. Lakin u\u011fursuzluq hissini ya\u015famaq \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 bir u\u011furdur. Dem\u0259k ki, s\u0259n minl\u0259rl\u0259 insandan f\u0259rqli olaraq, hans\u0131sa h\u0259d\u0259f \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u0259hdl\u0259r etmis\u0259n, sad\u0259c\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 aparmam\u0131san. U\u011fursuzluqlardan d\u00fczg\u00fcn n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xararaq daha g\u00fccl\u00fc olacaqsan. Sad\u0259c\u0259 u\u011fursuzlu\u011fu q\u0259bullan\u0131b, m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259n geri \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n.<\/p>\n H\u0259r birimiz \u00f6z sah\u0259sind\u0259 u\u011fur qazanan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 oxuduqca onlar\u0131n hans\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7dikl\u0259rini, m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apard\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 heyr\u0259tl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r\u0131q. Unutmayaq ki, Stiv Cobs, Cak Ma, Mark Zukenberq, Bill Qeys v\u0259 dig\u0259r \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r bug\u00fcnk\u00fc duruma \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 c\u0259hdl\u0259r edib v\u0259 u\u011fursuzluqlara d\u00fc\u00e7ar olublar, amma geri \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259yib, m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apar\u0131b v\u0259 z\u0259f\u0259r \u0259ld\u0259 edibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n Z\u0259f\u0259r <\/strong><\/p>\n U\u011fursuzluq ifad\u0259sini he\u00e7 birimiz q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259s\u0259k d\u0259, qalibiyy\u0259t, z\u0259f\u0259r, u\u011fur k\u0259lim\u0259l\u0259ri bizi sevindir\u0259n, motivasiya ed\u0259n k\u0259lim\u0259l\u0259rdir. U\u011furlu olmaq t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik v\u0259 m\u0259mnuniyy\u0259t b\u0259x\u015f edir. Geri d\u00f6n\u00fcb baxd\u0131qda, u\u011fur \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k, m\u0259qs\u0259din\u0259 nail olmaq q\u0259bul etdiyin d\u00fczg\u00fcn se\u00e7im, sonda \u00e7atmaq ist\u0259diyin h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn apard\u0131\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcbariz\u0259 insan\u0131 daha \u00e7ox q\u00fcrurland\u0131r\u0131r. \u018fld\u0259 edil\u0259n u\u011furlar s\u0259n\u0259 maddi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi rahatl\u0131q verir, s\u0259ni dig\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n f\u0259rql\u0259ndirir, kiml\u0259rins\u0259 kumirin\u0259 \u00e7evirir.<\/p>\n U\u011furlar\u0131n davaml\u0131 olsun!<\/p>\n R\u0259\u015fad Bayramov\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n “G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kS\u018fN” T\u0259lim v\u0259 \u0130nki\u015faf Proqram\u0131n\u0131n r\u0259hb\u0259ri<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130ctimai.az\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" H\u0259yatda h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131ca arzusu ist\u0259r karyeras\u0131nda, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131nda u\u011furlu olmaqd\u0131r. H\u0259r k\u0259s bunu arzu edir, amma ham\u0131 u\u011fur qazana bilmir. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259kc\u0259 x\u0259yal etm\u0259k kifay\u0259t etmir. U\u011fur qazanmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs bu yolda m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131, f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir. M\u0259hz dedikl\u0259rimizd\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k, sonda ist\u0259diyimiz n\u0259tic\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn diqq\u0259t edilm\u0259li olan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":62198,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,50,9,8,54],"tags":[67,66],"class_list":["post-2936","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-banner","category-youth","category-featured","category-exclusiv","category-education","tag-resad-bayramov","tag-ugur-formulu"],"yoast_head":"\n