M\u0259h\u015furlardan birinin fikridir: D\u00fcnyan\u0131n c\u0259mi iki m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259si var – qad\u0131n v\u0259 musiqi. Qad\u0131nsa \u0259n m\u00f6ht\u0259\u015f\u0259m musiqidir. \u018fslind\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda biz xan\u0131mlar\u0131n dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ola bilsin t\u0259v\u0259z\u00f6karl\u0131qdan bir q\u0259d\u0259r uzaq g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn, ancaq biz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc daha yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 anlay\u0131r\u0131q.
\nArt\u0131q lap \u00e7oxdan s\u00fcbut olunub ki, qad\u0131nlarla ki\u015fil\u0259rin daxili beyin qurulu\u015funda f\u0259rq var. Ki\u015fil\u0259r bir, yaxud iki q\u0259rarverm\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc\u0259 malik olduqlar\u0131 halda qad\u0131nlar 5-6 q\u0259rarverm\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u0259 malik olurlar. \u018fslind\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r Aristotel – y\u0259ni h\u0259 v\u0259 yox, qad\u0131nlar is\u0259 L\u00fctfi Zad\u0259 – y\u0259ni h\u0259 il\u0259 yox-un aras\u0131nda minl\u0259rl\u0259 q\u0259rarlar var m\u0259ntiqi il\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ki\u015fi d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131n uza\u011f\u0131 iki yolunu bildiyi halda, qad\u0131nlar 6 yolunu bilirl\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131nlara s\u00fclhp\u0259rv\u0259r deyirl\u0259r. M\u00fcharib\u0259 v\u0259 s\u00fclh varinatlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda el\u0259 variantlar var ki, m\u00fcharib\u0259d\u0259n az ziyanl\u0131, s\u00fclhd\u0259n \u00e7ox xeyirlidirl\u0259r.
\n\u018fslind\u0259 insanlar\u0131n qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi olaraq birl\u0259\u015fm\u0259l\u0259ri, ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tiri alt\u0131na girm\u0259l\u0259rinin d\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bi m\u0259hz onlar\u0131n \u00e7\u0259tin h\u0259yat \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rind\u0259n, a\u011f\u0131r s\u0131naqlardan u\u011furla \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131na xidm\u0259t edir. G\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fczm\u00fc, insan b\u0259lli ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa ehtiyac duyur. \u00c7\u00fcnki, art\u0131q h\u0259yat \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 qal\u0131r. Ki\u015fi iki q\u0259rarverm\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fc il\u0259 bu \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kir. G\u00fccl\u0259r birl\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259 art\u0131q iki n\u0259f\u0259rin birlikd\u0259 8 q\u0259rarverm\u0259 ehtiyat\u0131 olur.
\nQad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc onun yaradan olmas\u0131 il\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. El\u0259 bu m\u0259nada \u0130slam dini qad\u0131na \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u00fcquqlar verib. B\u0259z\u0259n dini t\u0259hrif etm\u0259yimizin n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131a ba\u011fl\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f fikirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndiririk.
\nQ\u0259dim D\u00fcnya dinl\u0259rind\u0259 do\u011fum hadis\u0259sinin \u201cruhlar\u0131n i\u015fi\u201d oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rd\u0131lar. \u018fski Yunanl\u0131lar do\u011fumda qad\u0131n\u0131n he\u00e7 bir t\u0259sirinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259r\u0259k, b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015feyin ki\u015fid\u0259n g\u0259ldiyin\u0259 inan\u0131r v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 insan yerin\u0259 bel\u0259 qoymazd\u0131lar. T\u00f6vratda H\u0259vvan\u0131n qab\u0131r\u011fa s\u00fcm\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259n yarad\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaz\u0131l\u0131b. Xristianlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 H\u0259vva Ad\u0259mi aldadan bir m\u0259xluq oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn lap \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n \u201c\u015eeytan\u201dd\u0131r. Lakin Quran insan\u0131n do\u011fumunu \u201cqar\u0131\u015f\u0131q bir su\u201ddan yarad\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n yarad\u0131lmas\u0131nda ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n birlikd\u0259 t\u0259sirinin oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131r. \u018fski Yunanl\u0131larda oldu\u011fu kimi t\u00f6r\u0259m\u0259nin sad\u0259c\u0259 ki\u015fiy\u0259 aid oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259mir. Xristianlarda oldu\u011fu kimi d\u0259 lap \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131 \u201c\u015eeytan\u201d olaraq d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirmir, Y\u0259hudil\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi d\u0259 \u201cqab\u0131r\u011fa s\u00fcm\u00fcy\u00fc\u201d hekay\u0259sini d\u0259 anlatm\u0131r. Tam real qiym\u0259tini verir.
\nAllah qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7ox y\u00fcks\u0259k qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirir. O, qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00f6vlad, ana, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259r\u0259k onlara ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 verilm\u0259y\u0259n bir \u00e7ox h\u00fcquqlar v\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259r vermi\u015fdir. \u0130slamda qad\u0131n haqq\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f fikirl\u0259rin b\u0259zil\u0259ri islama aid olmayan ad\u0259tl\u0259rin islama aid edilm\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130slamdan \u0259vv\u0259l yeni do\u011fulmu\u015f q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 diri basd\u0131rmaq, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ana b\u0259tnind\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259k ya\u015famaq h\u00fcququndan m\u0259hrum etm\u0259k islam t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qada\u011fan olunur.<\/p>\n
Allah Quranda ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 pozmama\u011f\u0131 \u0259mr edir. Q\u0131zlar\u0131 m\u0259cbur \u0259r\u0259 verm\u0259k, onlar\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131rtmaq haramd\u0131r. Qad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 onu maddi t\u0259min etm\u0259lidir v\u0259 h\u0259tta bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra da onun qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalma\u011fa borcludur. Allah qad\u0131nlara miras almaq h\u00fcququ, m\u00fclkiyy\u0259t\u00e7i olmaq h\u00fcququ vermi\u015fdir.
\nQad\u0131nlar\u0131 g\u00fccl\u0259ri \u00e7atmayan i\u015f\u0259 vadar etm\u0259k islamda qada\u011fan olunmu\u015fur. Bu h\u0259m dini, h\u0259m d\u0259 d\u00fcny\u0259vi i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 aiddir. Onlarla h\u0259r hans\u0131 i\u015f\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t ed\u0259rk\u0259n ehtiyatla olmaq, hikm\u0259t v\u0259 n\u0259sih\u0259tl\u0259 davranmaq buyurulmu\u015fdur.
\n\u0130slamda qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259hsilin\u0259 mane olma\u011fa icaz\u0259 verilm\u0259mi\u015fdir. \u018fksin\u0259 onlara bu i\u015fd\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k b\u0259y\u0259nilir.
\nPey\u011f\u0259m\u0259rimiz buyurmu\u015fdur: “H\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 qorumaqda Allahdan qorxun! \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar siz\u0259 Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259ti olaraq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 olmu\u015flar” Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimz(s.a.s) \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131nda m\u00fcxt\u0259lif v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r, lakin he\u00e7 vaxt h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na \u0259l qald\u0131rmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131r… Pey\u011f\u0259m\u0259rimiz(s.a.s) buyurmu\u015fdur: “Sizl\u0259rd\u0259n \u0259n xeyirlinz, ail\u0259si il\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l r\u0259ftar ed\u0259ndir”.
\n\u0130slam dini, qad\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 x\u00fcsusil\u0259 dayanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 qad\u0131na, he\u00e7 bir nizam v\u0259 sistemin verm\u0259diyi m\u00fcst\u0259sna bir m\u0259qama sahib q\u0131lm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. H\u0259m\u00e7inin Allahu T\u0259ala Qurani K\u0259rimd\u0259 d\u0259: \u201cKi\u015fil\u0259rin qad\u0131nlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 haqlar\u0131 oldu\u011fu kimi, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n da ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 haqlar\u0131 vard\u0131r\u201d buyurmu\u015fdur .R\u0259sulullah (s.a.v.) ki\u015fil\u0259ri, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n haqq v\u0259 h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t etmi\u015f v\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda: \u201cQad\u0131nlar\u0131n haqlar\u0131n\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259kd\u0259 Allahdan qorxun! \u00c7\u00fcnki siz onlar\u0131 Allah\u0131n bir \u0259man\u0259ti olaraq ald\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d dey\u0259 buyurmu\u015fdur. Ba\u015fqa h\u0259disi \u015f\u0259rifl\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259: \u201cSizin \u0259n xeyirliniz, \u0259hlin\u0259 (qad\u0131n\u0131na v\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na) \u0259n xeyirli olan\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. M\u0259nd\u0259 \u0259hlin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259n xeyirli olan\u0131n\u0131zam\u201d dey\u0259 buyurur.
\nPey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s.a.v.), ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259, qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 daim yax\u015f\u0131 davranmaqlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k: \u201cM\u00f6minl\u0259rin iman bax\u0131m\u0131ndan \u0259n yetkini v\u0259 \u0259n xeyirlisi, xan\u0131m\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259n xeyirli olan\u0131d\u0131r\u201d buyurmu\u015fdur. Vida H\u0259ccind\u0259ki m\u0259\u015fhur x\u00fctb\u0259sind\u0259 Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s.a.v.): \u201cEy insanlar! Qad\u0131nlar haqq\u0131nda Allahdan qorxun! Sizin qad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131z \u00fczr\u0259rind\u0259 haqq\u0131n\u0131z vard\u0131r” – burumu\u015fdur. Bu m\u00f6vzuda bir \u00e7ox h\u0259disl\u0259rd\u0259 bu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259lmi\u015fdir:
\n– Xan\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 incitm\u0259yin. Onlar, Allahu T\u0259alan\u0131n siz\u0259 \u0259man\u0259tidir. Onlara qar\u015f\u0131 yumu\u015faq olun, yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q edin!
\n– Xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n pis xasiyy\u0259tin\u0259 qatla\u015fan ki\u015fi, b\u0259lalara s\u0259br ed\u0259n Hz. \u018fyyub kimi m\u00fckafata qovu\u015far. \u018frinin pis xasiyy\u0259tin\u0259 s\u0259br ed\u0259n qad\u0131n da Hz. Asiy\u0259 kimi savaba qovu\u015far.
\n– Xan\u0131m\u0131 il\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 ke\u00e7inib zarafatla\u015fan\u0131 Allahu T\u0259ala sev\u0259r, ruzil\u0259rini art\u0131rar.<\/p>\n
– \u018fn \u00fcst\u00fcn m\u00f6min, xan\u0131m\u0131na, \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131, \u0259n l\u00fctfkar davranan g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259xlaql\u0131 m\u00fcs\u0259lmand\u0131r.
\n– \u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcs\u0259lman, xan\u0131m\u0131na \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 davranand\u0131r .
\n– Xan\u0131m\u0131na g\u00fcl\u0259r \u00fczl\u0259 baxan ki\u015finin d\u0259ft\u0259rin\u0259, bir k\u00f6l\u0259 azad etmi\u015f savab\u0131 yaz\u0131lar.
\n– Qad\u0131nlara ancaq alic\u0259nab v\u0259 \u015f\u0259r\u0259f sahibi ki\u015fi d\u0259y\u0259r ver\u0259r. Onlar\u0131 ancaq pis v\u0259 al\u00e7aq ki\u015fi xor g\u00f6r\u0259r
\n– Q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131l v\u0259 g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f il\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259yin! Libaslar\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l olsun. Etibar qazanmaqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ehsan edin!
\n– Kim q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edib, Allahu T\u0259alan\u0131n verdiyi nem\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 bolluq i\u00e7ind\u0259 yedir\u0259r, geydir\u0259rs\u0259, o q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t olar, C\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259md\u0259n qurtulub asanl\u0131qla C\u0259nn\u0259t\u0259 girm\u0259yin\u0259 bir f\u00fcrs\u0259t olar.
\n– \u0130ki q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131yla g\u00f6z\u0259l r\u0259ftar ed\u0259n m\u00fctl\u0259q c\u0259nn\u0259t\u0259 gir\u0259r.
\nBir insan\u0131n h\u0259r i\u015fi v\u0259 h\u0259r xasiyy\u0259ti xo\u015fa g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. F\u0259q\u0259t yax\u015f\u0131 niyy\u0259tli insan, \u00f6z xan\u0131m\u0131nda xo\u015fa g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k xasiyy\u0259tl\u0259r tapa bil\u0259r. Onunla \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u0259mnun v\u0259 m\u0259sud ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn eyib axtarmaq yox, g\u00f6z\u0259llik axtarma\u011fa t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259k vacibdir. M\u0259rif\u0259t iltifata tabedir. \u0130ltifats\u0131z m\u0259rif\u0259t is\u0259 zayd\u0131r.
\nAz\u0259rbaycan layiqi \u00f6lk\u0259 olsa da, bizd\u0259 dinl\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t ayr\u0131 olsalar da dini ad\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259, islam\u0131n \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l edilib. Dind\u0259ki qad\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 x\u00fcsusi olaraq qorunur v\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259 q\u0259bul olunan qanunlar, proqramlar v\u0259 onlardan ir\u0259li g\u0259l\u0259n idaretm\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fcbar\u0259k \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259l\u0259mi\u015f olur.
\nQad\u0131n el\u0259 bir q\u00fcvv\u0259dir ki, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u0259hz onunla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130ki yaradan var – Allah v\u0259 qad\u0131n. Qad\u0131n m\u0259hz d\u00fcnyaya insan g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259 Allahla eynil\u0259\u015fir. Bel\u0259 bir varl\u0131q bar\u0259sind\u0259 deyil\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259r yen\u0259 d\u0259 azd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva<\/strong> \u0130ctimai.az\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" M\u0259h\u015furlardan birinin fikridir: D\u00fcnyan\u0131n c\u0259mi iki m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259si var – qad\u0131n v\u0259 musiqi. Qad\u0131nsa \u0259n m\u00f6ht\u0259\u015f\u0259m musiqidir. \u018fslind\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda biz xan\u0131mlar\u0131n dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ola bilsin t\u0259v\u0259z\u00f6karl\u0131qdan bir q\u0259d\u0259r uzaq g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn, ancaq biz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc daha yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 anlay\u0131r\u0131q. Art\u0131q lap \u00e7oxdan s\u00fcbut olunub ki, qad\u0131nlarla ki\u015fil\u0259rin daxili beyin qurulu\u015funda f\u0259rq var. Ki\u015fil\u0259r bir, yaxud iki q\u0259rarverm\u0259 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3661","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society"],"yoast_head":"\n
\n\u201cLoqos\u201d un r\u0259hb\u0259ri, Psixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi \u0130B-nin s\u0259dri <\/strong><\/p>\n