Q\u0259dim Qala N\u0259\u015friyyat\u0131n\u0131n yeni n\u0259\u015frl\u0259ri i\u015f\u0131q \u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fc.<\/p>\n
\u201cH\u018fM MARSDAN, H\u018fM VENERADANAM\u201d kitab\u0131 cinsind\u0259n v\u0259 sosial statusundan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 \u00fcnvanlan\u0131b.<\/p>\n
Kitab qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin f\u0259rqli v\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259r c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini, ist\u0259kl\u0259rini oxuculara \u00e7atd\u0131rmaqla yanl\u0131\u015f t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259ri, strereotipl\u0259ri da\u011f\u0131daraq bir-birini, h\u0259m\u00e7inin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc anlama\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k edir.<\/p>\n
B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 elmi \u0259saslarla ara\u015fd\u0131ran m\u00fc\u0259llif h\u0259min f\u0259rql\u0259rin n\u0259d\u0259n qaynaqland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259ll yollar\u0131n\u0131 da t\u0259qdim edir. Kitab orqanizmimizd\u0259ki hormonal balans\u0131 t\u0259bii yolla qoruma\u011f\u0131 da \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259c\u0259k. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259m fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalacaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 insanlarla qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimizd\u0259 u\u011fur qazanaca\u011f\u0131q.<\/p>\n
Etiraf etm\u0259liyik ki, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 artan azadl\u0131q v\u0259 u\u011fur qazanmaq imkanlar\u0131 bir yandan da stres, qa\u00e7aqa\u00e7, g\u0259rginliy\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. M\u0259hz bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ist\u0259r c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 subay \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha t\u0259nha v\u0259 depressiv hiss edirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta bu artan s\u0259rb\u0259stlik v\u0259 u\u011fur imkanlar\u0131 insanlar aras\u0131nda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin g\u0259rginl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259, getdikc\u0259 bir-birind\u0259n uzaqla\u015fmas\u0131na da g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Bu yaln\u0131z c\u00fctl\u00fckdaxili, yaxud qad\u0131n-ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 deyil, \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131larla, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rimiz, dostlar\u0131m\u0131zla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimiz\u0259 d\u0259 aiddir.
\n\u201cH\u0259m Marsdan, h\u0259m Veneradanam\u201d kitab\u0131n\u0131 oxumaqla qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259, eyni zamanda \u00f6z daxilimizd\u0259 d\u0259 balans\u0131 qoruma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k, bel\u0259c\u0259 ist\u0259r c\u00fctl\u00fckdaxili, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259trafdak\u0131larla u\u011furlu m\u00fcnasib\u0259t yaratmaq bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131na yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yik. \u00dcst\u0259lik, buna nail olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u201ci\u015f, yoxsa ail\u0259\u201d kimi se\u00e7im etm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qalmayaca\u011f\u0131q. Bel\u0259c\u0259, biz h\u0259m fiziki, h\u0259m psixoloji sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalaca\u011f\u0131q.<\/p>\n
\u201cH\u0259m Marsdan, h\u0259m Veneradanam\u201d kitab\u0131 say\u0259sind\u0259 oxucu:<\/strong><\/p>\n Ail\u0259 v\u0259 i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131nda balans\u0131 qoruma\u011f\u0131n, \u201ckaryera, yoxsa ail\u0259\u201d se\u00e7imin\u0259 m\u0259cbur qalmadan h\u0259r ikisind\u0259 u\u011fur qazanma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k; C\u00fctl\u00fckdaxili m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin bir-birin\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyi t\u0259zyiqin sevgisizlikd\u0259n deyil, m\u0259hz hormonal disbalansdan qaynaqland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayaraq problemin h\u0259ll yollar\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131racaq;<\/p>\n Qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi orqanizminin f\u0259rqli hormonal qurulu\u015funu, hormonal disbalans\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 insan orqanizmind\u0259 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259rdar olacaq; MARS V\u018f VENERA YATAQ \u00a0OTA\u011eINDA\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Z\u0259man\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259 insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri, ist\u0259kl\u0259ri, ehtiyaclar\u0131 da d\u0259yi\u015fir. Bu, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r aras\u0131nda, h\u0259m\u00e7inin ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 aiddir. \u0130ndiki d\u00f6vrd\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n yegan\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 ki\u015finin pul qazan\u0131b ail\u0259ni doland\u0131rmas\u0131 deyil. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, qad\u0131n\u0131n x\u00f6r\u0259k bi\u015firib, evi t\u0259mizl\u0259yib, u\u015fa\u011fa baxma\u011f\u0131 da ki\u015fi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn prioritet deyil. B\u0259li, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 ail\u0259 s\u0259ad\u0259ti \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bunlar q\u0259tiyy\u0259n kifay\u0259t etmir. Lakin t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, h\u0259l\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259timiz bunu ya q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmirik, ya da tam anlamam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Bu hallar\u0131n ya\u015fanmas\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin intim, seksual ehtiyaclar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fmamalar\u0131, da\u015fla\u015fm\u0131\u015f stereotipl\u0259ri q\u0131ra bilm\u0259m\u0259l\u0259ridir. Onlar bir-biri il\u0259 bu bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaqdan utan\u0131rlar. \u0130st\u0259r qad\u0131n, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015fi el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t a\u00e7sa, intim ehtiyaclar\u0131, ist\u0259kl\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fsa, partnyoru, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 onun haqq\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f, pis fikirl\u0259r\u0259 qap\u0131lar. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.\u00a0<\/strong> Q\u0259dim Qala N\u0259\u015friyyat\u0131n\u0131n yeni n\u0259\u015frl\u0259ri i\u015f\u0131q \u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fc. \u201cH\u018fM MARSDAN, H\u018fM VENERADANAM\u201d kitab\u0131 cinsind\u0259n v\u0259 sosial statusundan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 \u00fcnvanlan\u0131b. Kitab qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin f\u0259rqli v\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259r c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini, ist\u0259kl\u0259rini oxuculara \u00e7atd\u0131rmaqla yanl\u0131\u015f t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259ri, strereotipl\u0259ri da\u011f\u0131daraq bir-birini, h\u0259m\u00e7inin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc anlama\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k edir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 elmi \u0259saslarla ara\u015fd\u0131ran m\u00fc\u0259llif h\u0259min f\u0259rql\u0259rin n\u0259d\u0259n qaynaqland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259ll yollar\u0131n\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":70141,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70140","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society"],"yoast_head":"\n
\nQad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 b\u0259nz\u0259r v\u0259 f\u0259rqli x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri, ehtiyaclar\u0131 anlayacaq; bir-birin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k;<\/p>\n
\nHormonal balans\u0131 t\u0259bii yollarla, preparatlar olmadan b\u0259rpa etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
\nD\u00f6vr, ehtiyaclar, ist\u0259kl\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fib. H\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 romantikaya, intim m\u0259mnuniyy\u0259t\u0259 getdikc\u0259 daha \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259m verirl\u0259r. H\u0259min \u00a0ehtiyaclar t\u0259min edilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 yol a\u00e7\u0131r v\u0259 bu, b\u0259z\u0259n bo\u015fanma il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir.<\/p>\n
\nB\u0259s i\u015fl\u0259rin bu h\u0259dd\u0259 \u00e7atmamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 etm\u0259k olar? \u00c7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu varm\u0131? Ail\u0259ni, ail\u0259 h\u0259rar\u0259tini, qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi aras\u0131nda ilk vaxtlardak\u0131 romantikan\u0131, ehtiras\u0131 qoruyub saxlama\u011f\u0131n yolu varm\u0131? Evliliyi zindana, m\u0259hb\u0259s h\u0259yat\u0131na deyil, sevgi, anlay\u0131\u015f, d\u0259st\u0259k v\u0259 ehtiras dolu ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na \u00e7evirm\u0259yin yolu varm\u0131? Zehnimizd\u0259 da\u015fla\u015fm\u0131\u015f “Evlilik sevgini, ehtiras\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr” fikrind\u0259n qurtulmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc?<\/p>\n
\n\u201cMars v\u0259 Venera yataq ota\u011f\u0131nda\u201d kitab\u0131 qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 bir-birini, eyni zamanda \u00f6zl\u0259rini d\u0259 tan\u0131ma\u011fa, k\u0259\u015ff etm\u0259y\u0259, \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 is\u0259 anlama\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k.
\nBu kitab c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z ist\u0259k v\u0259 ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259d\u0259n dil\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259, m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 bir-birini f\u0259rqli y\u00f6nd\u0259n tan\u0131ma\u011fa, k\u0259\u015ff etm\u0259y\u0259, bir-birini qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 yard\u0131m\u00e7\u0131 olacaq.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"