{"id":9499,"date":"2021-02-12T16:04:34","date_gmt":"2021-02-12T12:04:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ictimai.az\/?p=9499"},"modified":"2021-02-12T16:04:34","modified_gmt":"2021-02-12T12:04:34","slug":"klinik-psixoloq-narinc-rustemova-valideynler-her-seyde-mukemmellik-axtarirlar-musahibe-fotolar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ictimai.az\/?p=9499","title":{"rendered":"Klinik psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova: \u201cValideynl\u0259r h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik axtar\u0131rlar\u201d – (M\u00dcSAH\u0130B\u018f – FOTOLAR)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Klinik Psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova:<\/b>\u00a0“Valideynl\u0259r h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik axtar\u0131rlar. Bu m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik sonda u\u015faqlarda m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizliy\u0259 g\u0259tib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Art\u0131q avtoritar ail\u0259 modeli arxada qald\u0131. Yeni v\u0259 g\u0259nc n\u0259sild\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nli ail\u0259 modeli t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bilirik. \u00c7\u00fcnki, g\u0259nc valideynl\u0259r daha m\u0259lumatl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Biz informasiya \u0259srind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q\u201d.<\/p>\n

“NARINC\u201d U\u015faq Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin t\u0259sis\u00e7isi v\u0259 r\u0259hb\u0259ri, Klinik psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259movan\u0131n\u00a0“\u0130slahat.az\u201d<\/b>\u00a0x\u0259b\u0259r portal\u0131na m\u00fcsahib\u0259sini t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/p>\n

Nar\u0131nc xan\u0131m, sizi art\u0131q tan\u0131mayan yoxdur dem\u0259k olar ki… Amma, ist\u0259rdim ki, t\u0259qdimat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sizin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n e\u015fid\u0259k.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, ad\u0131m\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7ox uzun-uzad\u0131 s\u00f6zl\u0259r, titullar, elmi d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259m, m\u00fc\u0259llifi oldu\u011fum kitablar\u0131 v\u0259 s. vur\u011fulamaq olar. Amma m\u0259nim \u0259n \u00e7ox sevdiyim t\u0259qdimat formas\u0131 “\u00e7oxu\u015faql\u0131 ana\u201d, Klinik Psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259movad\u0131r. M\u0259n h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc sad\u0259c\u0259 M\u0259sud v\u0259 Elnar\u0131n deyil, psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na qovu\u015fdurdu\u011fum, nitqini a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131m, yeritdiyim b\u00fct\u00fcn balalar\u0131m\u0131n anas\u0131 kimi hiss edir\u0259m, bu ail\u0259l\u0259rin bir \u00fczv\u00fcn\u0259 \u00e7evrilir\u0259m. Onlar\u0131n \u0259n x\u0131rda ir\u0259lil\u0259yi\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259, u\u011furlar\u0131na el\u0259 analar\u0131 kimi \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259n sevinir, sevinc g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 t\u00f6k\u00fcr\u0259m. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259 \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131 “\u00e7oxu\u015faql\u0131 ana\u201d, Klinik Psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova.<\/p>\n

Psixologiya sah\u0259sin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259l\u0259rdir? H\u0259r \u015fey haradan ba\u015flay\u0131b?<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0259nd\u0259 insanlara qar\u015f\u0131 sevgi, diqq\u0259t u\u015faql\u0131qdan olub. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bu c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n ail\u0259md\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nmi\u015f\u0259m. Bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rim m\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 insanlara qar\u015f\u0131, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 diqq\u0259tli oldu\u011fumu, dinl\u0259m\u0259yi xo\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 m\u00fct\u0259madi olaraq xat\u0131rlad\u0131r. V\u0259 tale el\u0259 g\u0259tirdi ki, m\u0259n Psixologiya fakult\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0259bul oldum. Ondan sonra da art\u0131q birinci kursdan ba\u015flayaraq bir \u00e7ox fakult\u0259tiv t\u0259dbir v\u0259 seminarlarda aktiv i\u015ftirak edirdim. Bu sah\u0259y\u0259 sev\u0259r\u0259k g\u0259lm\u0259yim sonradan bir m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis olaraq yeti\u015fm\u0259yimd\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck rol oynad\u0131.<\/p>\n

U\u015faqlarla i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yin hans\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tin t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri var?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bizim h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 Elnur m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259 bu bar\u0259d\u0259 maraql\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259rimiz olur. Elnur m\u00fc\u0259llim daha \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir. M\u0259n h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 deyir\u0259m ki, b\u00f6y\u00fck insan konsultasiyaya g\u0259l\u0259n zaman \u00f6z m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk edir. V\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131ndan fikirl\u0259\u015fir ki, m\u0259n psixoloqla art\u0131q g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259y\u0259ms\u0259, dem\u0259k ki, problemimi h\u0259ll etm\u0259liy\u0259m. U\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t bir q\u0259d\u0259r f\u0259rqlidir. Maddiyyat t\u0259r\u0259fi \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ona maraql\u0131 deyil. Onun \u0259sas motivi oyun v\u0259 \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259dir. G\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz kimi, bizim m\u0259rk\u0259zimiz \u00e7ox r\u0259ngli, maraql\u0131, u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn diqq\u0259tc\u0259lbedici bir dizayndad\u0131r. U\u015faqlar buran\u0131 x\u0259st\u0259xana, iyn\u0259 vurulan v\u0259 ya hans\u0131sa qorxulu bir yer kimi t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr etm\u0259sinl\u0259r dey\u0259, bu ab-havan\u0131 yaratmaq ist\u0259mi\u015fik. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, u\u015faq sah\u0259si daha \u00e7\u0259tindir. \u00c7\u00fcnki, u\u015faqla i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n zaman evd\u0259 ana il\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259liyik, ata il\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259liyik, n\u0259n\u0259, baba, \u0259mi, bibi v\u0259 s. kim varsa, ail\u0259d\u0259 onlarla da psixoloji i\u015f aparmal\u0131y\u0131q. V\u0259 yaxud da ba\u011f\u00e7aya gedirs\u0259, ba\u011f\u00e7a m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259ri il\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 gedirs\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259ri il\u0259, y\u0259ni, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00e7evr\u0259sini \u0259sas kim \u0259hat\u0259 edirs\u0259, u\u011furlu korreksiya \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 da h\u0259d\u0259fimiz\u0259 almaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259yik. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r bir istiqam\u0259tin d\u0259rinliyin\u0259 getdikd\u0259 daha \u00e7\u0259tin hesab olunur. Amma, yen\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259n h\u0259l\u0259 ki, bu fikrimd\u0259 qal\u0131ram.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq kimi ehtiyac olduqda \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131za da konsultasiya ke\u00e7irsinizmi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki. Bizim h\u0259r an\u0131m\u0131z bel\u0259dir. \u00d6vladlar\u0131m\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunmas\u0131nda Elnur m\u00fc\u0259llimin\u00a0 v\u0259 el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn psixoloji bilik v\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7ox k\u00f6m\u0259yimiz\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r. He\u00e7 bu sah\u0259d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259s\u0259ydim bel\u0259, psixoloji bilikl\u0259rin m\u0259n\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131 bir valideyn kimi faydal\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131rd\u0131m. V\u0259 oldu da! D\u00fczd\u00fcr, insanlar h\u0259r zaman daha ideal\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259yir v\u0259 bizd\u0259 ideal anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 da \u0259sg\u0259r kimi nizaml\u0131 durmaq, oturmaq kimi q\u0259bul edilir. Amma xeyr! Yeri g\u0259ldikd\u0259 m\u0259nim o\u011flum hiperaktivdir. Bunlar \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin olan u\u015faqlard\u0131r, hans\u0131 ki, onlar dayanm\u0131rlar, davaml\u0131 olaraq h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259td\u0259dirl\u0259r, ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini edirl\u0259r, ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini deyirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlarla nec\u0259 davranmaq laz\u0131m g\u0259ldiyini bildiyim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, h\u0259l\u0259 ta \u00e7a\u011fal\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259n onda korreksiya i\u015fl\u0259ri aparma\u011fa ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fam. O\u011flum \u00e7ox \u015f\u0259n u\u015faqd\u0131r, he\u00e7 vaxt t\u0259rbiy\u0259sizlik etm\u0259z, amma, olduqca enerjilidir. M\u0259n bunu bilir\u0259m v\u0259 q\u0259bul edir\u0259m. M\u0259nim g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rim d\u0259 o\u011flumun xarakterin\u0259 uy\u011fundur. \u018fg\u0259r m\u0259n ondan sakit olma\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259s\u0259m, onun \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259m, onu da, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0259 incid\u0259c\u0259m. Bunu bir psixoloq olaraq \u00f6yr\u0259nmi\u015f\u0259m. V\u0259 bir psixoloq birinci \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6z ail\u0259sin\u0259 faydal\u0131 ola bilm\u0259lidir. \u018fks t\u0259qdird\u0259 seanslarda da faydal\u0131 ola bilm\u0259z, i\u015fin keyfiyy\u0259tin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Sizc\u0259, \u0259n \u00e7ox psixoloji probleml\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r rastla\u015f\u0131r ya u\u015faqlar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Haz\u0131rda v\u0259ziyy\u0259t bel\u0259dir: Psixoloji problem ya\u015fayan b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcy\u00fc psixoloji problemli u\u015faqlar. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq valideynl\u0259r h\u0259r zaman \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0259kdikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z reabilitasiyalar\u0131n\u0131 arxa plana at\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 v\u0259 i\u015f m\u00f6vzusunda q\u0131z\u0131l qaydan\u0131z n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Burada \u0259n \u00f6n\u0259mli n\u00fcans “Yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131”n\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, bu proses\u0259 h\u0259m d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 u\u015faq, yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015f kriteriyalar\u0131 da daxildir. \u00c7\u00fcnki, m\u0259n i\u015f\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259md\u0259y\u0259m kimi hiss edir\u0259m, burda bel\u0259 i\u015f g\u00f6r\u0259rk\u0259n dinc\u0259l\u0259 bilir\u0259m. V\u0259 \u0259n \u00f6n\u0259mlisi qeyd etdiyim kimi, i\u015fin ba\u015f\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma, sevgi v\u0259 say\u011f\u0131 \u0259hat\u0259sind\u0259 olduqda h\u0259r bir \u00e7\u0259tinlik ba\u015f \u0259yir qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda. V\u0259 eyni zamanda g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fczg\u00fcn planla\u015fd\u0131rma, saatlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn b\u00f6l\u0259 bilm\u0259k d\u0259 m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. H\u0259m ail\u0259y\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r zaman ay\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

M\u0259rk\u0259ziniz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259r i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 u\u015faqlarda daha \u00e7ox rast g\u0259lin\u0259n psixoloji probleml\u0259r hans\u0131lard\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn u\u015faqlarda rast g\u0259lin\u0259n psixoloji probleml\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259ndir. \u018fg\u0259r biz u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ediriks\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin bug\u00fcnk\u00fc psixologiyas\u0131na uy\u011fun etm\u0259liyik. T\u0259bii ki, valideynl\u0259r \u00e7ox zaman indiki d\u00f6vr\u00fc \u00f6z d\u00f6vrl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Bu da m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259r yarad\u0131r. Bizim \u0259n \u00e7ox rast g\u0259ldiyimiz problem u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n anaya ba\u011fl\u0131 olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu da valideynin u\u015fa\u011fa diqq\u0259tinin artmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Bizd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7oxu\u015faql\u0131 ail\u0259 dedikd\u0259, 8-9 u\u015fa\u011fa sahib olan n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulurdu. Amma bu g\u00fcn is\u0259 \u00e7ox u\u015faql\u0131 ail\u0259 dedikd\u0259, \u0259n \u00e7ox 3 u\u015faq n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur. Qay\u011f\u0131lar art\u0131qca, valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 daha da s\u0259rb\u0259stliy\u0259 meyll\u0259ndirirdi. Ancaq, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n az olmas\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vlada olan qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, 1 \u00f6vlad\u0131m var, h\u0259r \u015feyin yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn edim. Bu da u\u015faqlarda \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u0259, \u015f\u0131ltaql\u0131\u011fa v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f pozuntusuna s\u0259b\u0259b olur. U\u015faqlar valideynl\u0259rin z\u0259if n\u00f6qt\u0259sini bil\u0259nd\u0259, art\u0131q \u00f6z ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni, kompyuter\u0259, televizora y\u00f6n\u0259lirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta el\u0259 analar var ki, 8 ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7imizdirir, yedizdirir, geyindirir. Bu da u\u015faqlarda t\u0259nb\u0259llik, \u00f6z m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk etm\u0259m\u0259k problemi yarad\u0131r. Ana g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015f verm\u0259d\u0259n u\u015faq he\u00e7 bir i\u015f g\u00f6rm\u00fcr. Davaml\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t normal deyil. Bu, u\u015faqlarda \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsizliy\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur v\u0259 stress\u0259 davams\u0131zl\u0131q yarad\u0131r. X\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 adaptasiya olmaqda \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r, sosial m\u00fchit\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015f\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Daha \u00e7ox da onlarda davran\u0131\u015f probleml\u0259ri yaran\u0131r. Bu da u\u015faqlarda \u00e7\u0259king\u0259nlik v\u0259 a\u011flamalarla m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, “evd\u0259 xoruz olurlar, \u00e7\u00f6ld\u0259 f\u0259r\u0259”.<\/p>\n

H\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n probleml\u0259ri ba\u011f\u00e7a d\u00f6n\u0259mind\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 daha \u00e7ox \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u00c7\u00fcnki sinifd\u0259 v\u0259 ba\u011f\u00e7ada u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 \u00e7ox oldu\u011fundan m\u00fc\u0259llim b\u00fct\u00fcn diqq\u0259tini 1 u\u015fa\u011fa y\u00f6n\u0259ld\u0259 bilmir. T\u0259bii ki, u\u015faqlar evl\u0259rind\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259ri qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u00e7ada v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Bu da zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 aqressivl\u0259\u015fdirir. Aqresiya yarand\u0131qda is\u0259 u\u015faqlarda davran\u0131\u015f pozuntusuna g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. U\u015faqlar anadan ayr\u0131la bilmir. Analar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r ki, onlarla birg\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, ba\u011f\u00e7ada otursunlar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, analar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda g\u00fcv\u0259nd\u0259 olurlar. Analar da u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsiz b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259r h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik axtar\u0131rlar. Bu m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik sonda u\u015faqlarda m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizliy\u0259 g\u0259tib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Art\u0131q avtoritar ail\u0259 modeli arxada qald\u0131. Yeni v\u0259 g\u0259nc n\u0259sild\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nli ail\u0259 modeli t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bilirik. \u00c7\u00fcnki, g\u0259nc valideynl\u0259r daha m\u0259lumatl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Biz informasiya \u0259srind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q. G\u0259nc valideynl\u0259r u\u015faq psixologiyas\u0131 il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olurlar, ail\u0259l\u0259rimiz psixoloqlara gedirl\u0259r. Bu \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 hald\u0131r ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259n zaman psixoloq yard\u0131m\u0131 al\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Hans\u0131 n\u00f6v psixoloji problemin h\u0259lli m\u0259rk\u0259zinizd\u0259 yoxdur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u0131rf a\u011f\u0131r psixiatrik problemi olan pasientl\u0259r, hans\u0131 ki, m\u00fctl\u0259q stasionar m\u00fcalic\u0259 almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hans\u0131 mesajlar\u0131 verm\u0259k ist\u0259rdiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130ndi d\u00f6vr d\u0259yi\u015fib, karyera quran, i\u015fg\u00fczar xan\u0131mlar\u0131n say\u0131 get-ged\u0259 art\u0131r. Bu m\u0259ni \u00e7ox sevindirir v\u0259 q\u00fcrurland\u0131r\u0131r bir xan\u0131m olaraq. Amma, \u0259n birinci t\u00f6vsiy\u0259m bu olard\u0131 ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn zaman\u0131 karyera, t\u0259hsil\u0259 ay\u0131r\u0131b, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 arxa planda qoymas\u0131nlar. B\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 i\u015fin\u0259, t\u0259hsilin\u0259 el\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131r ki, bir d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131b g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, ya\u015f \u00f6t\u00fcb, \u00f6mr\u00fcn yar\u0131s\u0131 gedib, amma, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n, g\u00fcv\u0259n duyaca\u011f\u0131n bir h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n, can par\u00e7an olan balalar \u0259ksikdir h\u0259yat\u0131nda. M\u00fctl\u0259q bunu balansla\u015fd\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 bacars\u0131nlar. \u0130nan\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn zaman b\u00f6lg\u00fcs\u00fc ed\u0259nd\u0259 h\u0259m i\u015f\u0259, h\u0259m t\u0259hsil\u0259, h\u0259m dosta, h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 yet\u0259rli vaxt ay\u0131rmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. Bax g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131za bu q\u0131z\u0131l ortan\u0131 tapma\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 daim saxlama\u011f\u0131 t\u00f6vsiyy\u0259 edir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

S\u0259ma Qurban<\/strong><\/p>\n

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